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Please answer as sooon as you can!!
Welp i have been going out with this kid only about 2 weeks and we usualy hangout every day. Every day he also usually goes "down there" But i just got my period and i dont know what to tell him. I dont wanna just come out and be like.."no dont do it i have my period" but what should i say to him??? thankyouu!

i think you need to be straight forward about it and let him know .. he has to respect what you say because it's your parts and your time of the month! he should understand, i mean missing out for a little under a week won't kill him. good luck - &hearts ♥ casey

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Well, there's this guy that I like and I know he likes me, his friends have told me.All of his friends think that we should go out, but I can't gop out with him because of my friends.See...I'm into Cheerleading and danceing, and hes into skateboarding...two different worlds, and his not the most popular guy either, and well, I am, and I can't really go out with somebody like him. What should I do?I really like him, should I go out with him or do what my friends want and not even talk to him? HELP!!!

it shouldnt matter if yawl like eachother .. friends are important but they aren't real if they make you give up someone you like. those two seperate worlds are fake things created by the popularity contest called school. the reality is you're in the same world and if you like eachother .. you should go for it. best of luck, casey x3

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Ok, everyone and I mean EVERYONE says my b/f is bi. I don't really feel 'comfertable' going out with a bi person. My friends and other people like never shut up about it and it's really annoying. What should I do??

JUST ASK HiM! i know it might be akward but you have to find out, you can't just listen to other people, but you do need to take what they said into consideration.

good luck with that, i hope for the best!

x3 casey

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I like this one boy very much but he doesn't like me because I'm not "sexy/seductive" enough. For example, the girl he likes is very confident and a tease. How can I be a bit more like that?

You shouldn't need to be a tease to get him, just show him what you're all about and go for it. Guys don't always like that .. eventually he'll realize he needs someone more serious.

good luck, hope you get 'em!

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ok.. so right.. i have a .. well i guess a friend. you see we've been dating on and off for a year. i cheated on him once but he understood because i was going through a lot and i was just confused with everything. about 2 or 3 months ago he cheated on me and it hurt really bad.. now we've recently started talking again and he's always saying how much he loves me etc. etc. he doesn't want to date right now because i am under major grounding and i understand and it's ok. but all i ever hear from neone is that i can't be concerned about where he is or what he's doing or whatever because i'm not his girl anymore. true as it is it's wayy harsh and hurts really bad.. i'm just wayy confused and i'm not quite sure what to do. part of me wants to stay with him.. he was my first love an i really do love him. but another part of me is like.. well if i move on i could find someone else who would make me extremly happy.. or i could be even more miserable because im not with him and i'm soo confused. he used to put me down a lot.. talk about like how i wasn't bi i just said i was.. and he once made me lie about being his girl because one of his friends hated me.. so i mean he's gotten loads better but we do fight all the time and it's wayy hard and i mean.. i just don't know what to do.. i'm not happy and i don't know what to do to make myself happy and you have no idea how much he loves me.. he really does and he's trying to get better with the fighting.. i just don't know what to do.. please help.

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okay - here's the deal -

if both of you have cheated then you're obviously not satisfied with eachother .. and if you're not happy, you need to seriously consider breaking up + or just do it +

It sounds like both of you aren't really in love, and you're more in it for well, having the security of being in a couple. i hope i've helped, but this is a fragile situation, it requires a lot of thought. good luck!

♥ casey

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ok this is really worryin me my g/f is in middlsboro with her mom 4 the summer there is alot of boys that like her up there. i mean yea i trust her and all but i rlly dont kno what 2 think about all those boys can any1 help me????

hMm .. i think the best way to handle it is to keep in contact with her throughout the whole summer. like call her and write her letters and stuff like that. there's no way to be totally sure but like you said you trust her, so hearing from her and that trust should be enough. mucho lovin - casey mae x3 «-- why'd you give me a 1 for that? it wasnt perfect but it's good advice

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Okay, I am really confused!! A lot of guys at my school always talk to each other about how they are SO in love with me. But not one of them has asked me out at all during the whole year. And in class, all they do is gawk at me. I don't get it!

maybe they love you SO MUCH that they're intimidated! guys are weird like that .. just flirt with the ones you like and hope for the best .. just wait it out, things will happen i'm almost sure! mucho lovin! casey mae x3

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i'm 13 and my best friend likes the guy i like and he likes her back..but they're not going out. so my friend and i were talking online right? heres the convo
jamicanmecrazy13: ok well i wus talkin to phillip and i wus like so who do you like and he goes i dunno and he goes you? and i go i dont like any1 atleast not any more and he goes who did you use to like and i go you should no and he goes o yah *him* and i go yah i dont know y tho and he goes how cum? and i go well theres no point in wastin my time on a guy that dusni't like me and he goes poor *him* and i go y poor *him* like 6 gurls like him and he goes yah but your the only gurl that he likes and i go wut ever and y would he like me and he goes b/c ur the only gurl that he liked and that liked him bak and i go no ell likes him and he goes yah but he likes you more he always has and i go yah shure and he told me that that is wut *him* told him at his house and i go shure and so he said for me to text *him* and see if evrything that he said is true and it wus
her: ru done readin?
me: cool
her: ooh sry i forgot that you liked him im sooooo sry babe i feel so bad
me:oh its ok

but it wasn't ok i was feeling horrible and i was so sad. like beyond sad like hysterically sad and so now i dont know what to do. please help.

well .. it sounds like your friend was trying to make you jealous - in other words the gloves can come off at - a n y - time you want them to. just go as far as you think you need to, if you really like him he's your's for the taking .. good luck! mucho lovin! casey mae x3

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what is the best way for love to happen? i've heard that love for sight is just lust. i think love is build on friendship, is this true?

well, i think there's no real label for how love should happen .. it's kinda up to the situation .. but if it's built on love you have to be careful - b/c you might end up losing what you had before you loved eachother ;; mucho lovin! casey mae x3

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What do u do when the guy youve been going out with dumped you cause he wanted someone hotter?
age 13 gender female

hMm .. you get over him because someone that superficial isn't worth having or fighting for - unless you - l o v e - him .. then try to be hotter of course! lol, hope i've helped :: mucho lovin!*

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ok me n this guy are best friends but i really like him and he knows it....one time we were talking and i told him i still liked him and he said he was afraid of loosing the friendship we have so we hadnt talked about it for a while but now its summer and we always said we would go out during summer...but a while back i got fed up with waiting on him and dicided to just be his friend but inside i knew i will never be able to not love him like more then a friend ...so anyway i was almost over him and i went to camp for a week and right when i got home he called and was like i really missed you love you ...and tonight we were going to do somthing but i couldnt so he went over to another firnds house but he promised he wouldnt do anything with anyother girls ... does this mean he likes me ?? i hopw i made sence lol
thanks and ill rate=D

well .. okay i had this happen just this year, but i lost one guy i LOVED for my like .. best friend who i said yes to mostly because he was my friend .. and the one i loved had just broken my heart for like the millionth time, and everybody said the friend wouldnt hurt me .. but it turns out he dumped me shortly after .. so not only was i hurt, but i didnt have my best guy friend to talk to about it .. and it sucked. things are still different between us and i'm sure they will always be, and i'm gonna miss having him there for me like he used to be, but .. i cant say i wouldnt say yes again, so i guess really this is up to you .. i hope i helped make it easier for you .. mucho love*

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on my birthday i found out that my ex boyfriend just got asked out by someone else. i asked him out about four or five days before he went out with the other girl. and i definetly know that it isn't fair. also he dumped me for no stupid reason. now my question is what should i do about this other than talking to him? should i ask him out again or should i try talking to him more and more?? sorry it is so so so so long.. ha ha

hMm .. well, this is a tough one .. but i have been in that possition before .. and i would say that you should try to meet the other girl FiRST .. you know, get to know the competition =D

Next, i would try (like you said) talking to him, and then just be like as flirty as possible .. a.k.a make him LOVE you!

if that doesnt seem to be working, then i would go for another approach .. and that's the payback-make-him-REALLY-jealous approach .. like find someone else who you can see yourself with, and then if your ex seems jealous, then you can take it from there, but if he doesnt .. then apparently it's not gonna work out, and you can give the other guy more of a chance

hope everything works out! mucho love

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