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so my boyfriend of over seven months just broke up with me. He's 15 and im 16/f (almost 17 in a couple days.. thats right. he broke up with me a week before my birthday). MANY times before i wanted to break up with him. i distinctly remember 4 times and he was so scared and begged me not to, so i stayed with him and tried to work it out. He ended up treating me like a princess last week and i was happy and fine, everything was good,and then he dumps me. He said he was just tired of fighting (because we fought alot that week.) i asked him to give me a week,and if he still felt the same way by then, i would do what he wanted. well he gave it over night and then broke up with me through a text message in my firt period class. he said he just wanted to be with his friends and be single...i guess so he could flirt with other girls and keep his options open(he wasnt the type to cheat and leave me for someone.) he was like "maybe we should break up and get back together later" he just put me on the shelf so he can come back to me later. well i dont want him back. its been hard on me. i just want to know he cares, but i havent contacted him or talked to him at all since, which its only been like 4 days but still.. anyways, what i want is for him to come back and miss me like crazy that way i can say 'im sorry, you're the one that broke up with me. i dont think that i can go out with you again.' he gave up the only girl that would go out with his sorry butt for that long, because honestly he was an ass. so on facebook, i deleted everything.. all the pictures and stuff. now idk what to put as my status. im not going to put something sad because im NOT going to let him know that i miss him. i want him to wonder what im doing. so please help me think of some stuff to put as my status thatll make him wonder what im up to. ANYTHING will be helpful. i know it seems like a stupid and insignificant thing that ask, but Im in desperate need of this lol. Will Rate. (link)
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"had fun with him today :)
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so ive been very easy recently. i dont make boys play hard fo rme i give in really easily but i really like this guy and he doesnt like me because im so easy so how do i go from being a complet slut to hard 2 get? (link)
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Drop all the boys. stop flirting. If you like to show your 'goodies' start covering up. not like turtle necks and long sleeves, just clothes that aren't too revealing. learn how to have more respect for yourself. if you continue hanging out with other boys then just remember you're only hurting yourself because the boy you like isn't going to want to be with you if he sees you with other people. show the boy you like who you really are deep down. let him know you're personality before doing anything. if you continue being "easy" no guy is ever going to respect you and they're just going to walk all over you. trust me, i learned the hard way.
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listen i relly liek this guy and we laugh alot and liek hanging out together . we play little games but sometimes we act liek enemys bcuz thats how ppl expect us to be.but now i rly kike him and i dnt know what to do im just a kid but my school has already dating involved and i wnt this guy to like me. what should i do
im a girl and 11 (link)
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There is no reason to act fake AT ALL. You shouldn't care what others think. If you're keep trying to show people what they want to see you're going to have a lot of drama in high school. Finding yourself is a part of growing up, you can't find yourself if you're acting like someone you're not. Just tell the boy how you feel about him. I remember at your age people who were crushing on each other would act like they hate each other in front of others. He could possibly like you too. Just tell him the truth and hope for the best. good luck [:
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Well My boyfriend Touched Another Girls Butt. And Said He Didnt Mean To,I Just Dont Belive It Im so hurt, I Live With Him I Have No Where Else To Go. I Dont Know If I Should Stay Or Go. I Really Love Him! im Just So Jelous! I Get Jelous Over Anything What Do I Do Please Help! (link)
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he may be telling you the truth. Just try having an actual conversation, don't just ask him if he did it. Tell him how it makes you feel and how he shouldn't be putting his hands on anyone but YOU. if you genuinely love him then you shouldn't let something like this ruin your whole relationship. If it's bothering you a lot then you should go spend a day or two at your friend's house so you can get your head straight. Just remember, he's with you, not her. I get jealous very easily but I think that's just because we are girls haha. What I do if something like that happens is tell myself he's MY boyfriend, not hers. He wants ME, not her. Don't let some stupid girl tear you guys apart, everyone makes mistakes. There's a song that says "you can't live in the past. You either gotta let that shit go, or let me go"
In the end the decision is yours, I can go on and on about what I think but what I think shouldn't matter to you. No one on here knows exactly how you feel about him or the history between the two of you. I would personally talk to him about it and if he ends up doing something again then that's when i would start wondering whether i should stay or leave.
I wish you the best of luck and I hope everything works out.
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So me and this guy kissed like two days ago he didnt have a problem with it. But he has not re4plied to any of my calls or text for the past couple of days. he was my first kiss and like i promised him he would be my first french kiss too. but did he not reply or call back because i am a bad kisser. i am 14 and i am a female. (link)
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there is no such thing as a bad kisser. you are just over-thinking everything. just forget about him, boys will be boys. he's probably scared to talk to you because now he's probably nervous or he's decided to be a jerk which means he wasn't worth your time anyways
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this will probably be long but PLEASE bare with me, i will return the favor to all who help!
so i met this amazing guy about two months ago. i've never met a guy whose treated me so well, EVER. i could go on and on about how happy i was. we haven't done anything sexual either, which i like about him. well then something happened, and out of no where his mood seemed to change. he doesn't really text me anymore, last time i really talked to him was monday night and i was happy because i was the first person he wanted to see when he got home from washington that night, but i couldn't go over there. well then we had a conversation and i think i might have said something that pissed him off here was our convo
MONDAY NIGHT:
him: someday i'll be making millions playing hockey so it's okay that i am constantly playing
me: well then are you gonna buy me a house since i'm so special ;) (and i was joking, obv)
him: maybe....
me: well fine then
him: Ok
me: i think someone needs to go to bed..
him: ok bye
me: ok what the hell nick, whats wrong with you?
him: i don't know maybe i am just tired, sorry.
me: yeah well you know i've been going through alot and i thought talking to you would help me but i dont know now ..
him: woah calm down don't freak out
me: i'm not freaking out you're the one who started acting weird in the first place ..
and he never said anything back after that.
well then thursday i end up texting him asking if he will take me to the driving range when i get back from vacation because i know he loves golf and could help me and all he said back was yep and i said well you don't have to .. and then no response and thats the last i heard from him..
i don't know whats up with him! now monday i'm leaving for hawaii for 10days so i won't be able to see him. i'm just worried i'm really going to lose him, especially to another girl or something. should i text him or leave it alone? i know i'm going to constantly be thinking about him and the whole thing all throughout vacation when i shouldn't be worrying about ANYTHING when in paradise ..
any suggestions on what i should do?? thanks!:) (link)
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Whoa, I was having kind of the same issues but everythings fixed now. My guy was just really stressed out so maybe he's stressed? Just give him a day or two to gather his thoughts and text/call him and just be straight forward. I striaght out asked my guy if we were okay and it helped us grow closer because he started venting to me. Don't freak out. If he texts you before you text him then that would be even better. Make sure you don't constantly text him especially if hesitant reply the first time because then he'll start doubting whether or not you guys should even be friends. Basically, if your a blunt person you should talk to him and flat out ask him what's going on. Don't take thinks too serious though. I wish you guys the best of luck (: can you help me? http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=582806
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ok my question envolves 4 people. i was with my ex bf for 2 years. about a year in the realtionship i slept with a ex co worker of his which was our friend. and stayed sleepin with him through the rest of the relationship. to this day i still am. so for a year i cheated, but hey i enjoyed it. after a month of cheating i began to gain feelings for this guy. this guy also has a girlfriend that he has had for 6 years. so for 14 months we both cheated with eachother. i had my bf and he had his gf. neigther one of our partners kno whats goin on. i feel that i now have loved him for a while, he tells me he loves me also. he says he gets jealous when i talk to another guy. i kno i want to be with him but his gf is blockin that from happening. oh by the way i am 22 and the guy is 37. i believe he really cares about me but i cant seem to win him over. he is only with the gf because she has insurance for his 2 kids. like i said i love him and i kno i do and i cant just give up on him. not after a year of this has been goin on. my question is do you think i should give up when i kno there is a chance of winnin him over or should i keep up with my heart? he is all i think about, i have been singel for 6 months now (other than him) and everyone i talk to.. its not the same and when he finds out it hurts him. i cant really get involve with anyone because when i talk to someone or hold someone i see him not the new person. but like i asked what should i do? stay with him or give up? (link)
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I say you should give up. It's not fair that he gets jealous when you talk to other guys while he has his girl. His gf is eventually gonna start wondering why he isn't proposing to get since they've been together for so long and they have children together. If you end up ignoring my advice and just decide to follow your heart, you're just gonna get more attatched to him and things will get even more complicated. I wish you the best of luck.
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