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Q: There's this guy named *Jason*. For months now he's been staring at me. Sometimes I see him blushing when I look at him or stand near him. Recently, my teacher was talking to him after class. The whole class basically was listening as they talked about relationships. All of a sudden he looked at me and said "Rachel dumped me." That was his ex gf but I didn't know they had broken up. I just get the vibe that he likes me. I sent him an email at the beginning of the weekend saying I liked his haircut. He sent an email back saying "Who is this"? I'm soo afraid to tell him because it might be awkward at school. There's only 3 1/2 days of school left though. Should I tell him I wrote it or what?
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Aww, tell him you wrote it! What can it hurt.. it will probably just show you if he likes you or not. If he doesn't.. which I doubt he doesn't but even if.. you don't have many school days left! Good luck sweetie!
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Q: what do you do when ur a freshman dating a sophomores (14/f) and all the sophomore girls hate you bc ur dating a sophomore? all these sophomores are getting all these other people to be against you, what do you do?
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That is really immature of them to do that. You'd think they'd be the mature ones in this situation! Don't worry about it, they need to get a life and they have too much time on there hands to sit there and try to get people to hate you. They obviously are jealous of you, you're just dating some one...Not that big of a deal!! Just don't worry about them babe..!!
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Q: how do youget over a guy? i've liked this guy forever and everytime i try to think about things that are weird abotu him or smthn i just end up being like aww thats so cute what can i do
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I had that problem and asked the same question a little bit ago.I had liked this guy for hmmm...over a year and a half and I wanted to stop and I couldn't...it made me cry! Well I liked him so much that other guys would show interest and I would blow them off just for hope that the boy I liked would like me back. I got sick of it. So what I did was I avoiding seeing him. Like I would go a different way to class to avoid going by his locker. And then someone asked me out and usally I would say no but I went for it. So if you have another guy you may have a little interest in then go out with him!! It helps a lot...I totally don't like the other boy now lol. Hope I helped
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Q: hey this is for guys mostly but if girls want to answer ok. so anyways im going out with this guy we have been dating for 2 weeks and i really need 2 buy him a christmas gift but he wont tell me what he wants. guys when u say that what does it mean. and any gift ideas would be soooo great. thanks.
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Hey, that's a pretty hard thing to think of huh? Yeah I had to shop for my boyfriend but luckily he told me what he wanted lol, it was easy as that. But anyways a gift certificate works well. Like them ones you can get at the mall....so go to the mall that he shops at and buy a whole mall certificate thingy, that should work. Hope I helped!
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Q: my crush says that he can't get a gf right now because he is busy with other stuff! I heard he likes me from my other classmates. does that mean he is not that into
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It definitely doesn't mean he isn't into you. He may not even know you like him. Try talking to him and showing interest. He may just be seriously busy doing other things but I still think you should show him that you are interested. Hope I helped and good luck sweetie.
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Q: I have been with my boyfriend for three months but I fancied him as soon as I first talked to him. We have gone as far as kissing (with tongues) and he has felt my breasts and stuff. Him and I both want to start doing other things like dry sex and fingering but I'm really worried about him fingering me. Should I shave? Would he be freaked out if there is hair down there? Any advice would be good. Thank you.
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Actually, it depends on the guy. Some guys like when nothing is there and some don't mind when there is. If your comfortable with shaving down there that would be the safest bet would be to shave. Make sure before you shave that you cut the hair short and then do it. Never dry shave though. Hope I helped. Good luck with your boyfriend.
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Q: i used to go out with this guy. he wasnt exactly a loser but some ppl thought he was. so i got really insecure about it and stupidly dumped him. this happened about 4 weeks ago. lately i have started to regret dumping him and i miss him so much!! should i tell him this?
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I know how people can make you feel bad. But you shouldn't have broken up with him because of it...don't even listen to what people think. Yes I think you should definitly tell him that you regret breaking up with him and you miss him a lot, I don't think I would add the loser part lol. Maybe you guys will hook up again. Good luck! Hope I helped.
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Q: Hi. Ok, I have this little problem! See, I really like this guy & all but he's throwin me mixed signals! Like.. I've only known him for like 4 months & we became good friends fast. I was the first one to go and talk to him & he's new at our school this year. All my friends were to chicken to go & talk to him because they were like, "He's soo hot what if I say something stupid?" Ok.. well, I'm an outgoing person so that was easy for me! Anyways.. he'll say stuff like, Stephanie's gay!, so the whole class hears it but I dont care because I'm not gay & he's just kidding & he's always asking me about my boyfriends and how far I've gone with a guy. When I dont talk to him at all, he gets all sad like, "You broke my heart", but then he starts laughin. I dunno if he likes me likes me or if we're just good friends. What do you think?
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Aww. Well it does seem like he has some interest in you. He might just be kind of trying to figure out if you like him. He wouldn't say that stuff randomly just for no reason so it kind of seems to me that he does like you and maybe just isn't sure. I would just throw him some signals that maybe your interested too, but you don't know if he is either. Hope I helped and good luck!
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Q: Every body at my school has a boyfriend ir girlfriend.. I act myself and every thing.. What I am getting to is What do Guys look for in a girl!! and plz nothing Gross
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Hey sweetie! I know it sucks when it seems like your the only one without a boyfriend. I don't have a boyfriend either and I act like myself. Just be outgoing and keep yourself open and friendly so guys know that you're avalible. If you have one certain person in mind or even a few people, make sure there not single for one and another thing, just try to get to know them. Not in the stalking way lol but talk to them more...maybe get their number or screen name and then they might be interested. Hope I helped, and good luck.
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Q: hey...there this guy that lives down my street that im tryin to hook up w/ my friend...any tips for hookin up?also its hard to get in touch w/ him cuz hes nevr outside & hes hardly online when i am...what should I do?
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Make excuses to go to his house, like to borrow something for your mom or dad or something. Or just call him and talk to him on the phone and just try to get closer with him and find out if he's interested in your friend. Hope I helped
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Q: What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?
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Awww, that is really cute! Make her feel like she is really important. Tell her you love her and that she is beautiful. When your with her make it a habit of kissing her and holding her...that always makes me feel special. Just don't be overly clingy and obsessive lol. And most importantly...make sure you talk to her as often as you can! Hope I helped
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Q: lastnight 8 of us went to my friend stephen's house and then chili's and a movie and this guy robbie that likes me invited me and so at the movie he sat next to me and put his arm around me and he told my friend that he was sure he liked me last night but then today his AIM didnt work and so he had to put up away messages for me to read bc i was like hey and i didnt know his AIM wasnt working. so then his away message was like im sorry then another was like i just feel like we have nothing in common. then he signed off. and then i was talking to my friend and she said that robbie is not good at talking with girls and now he is thinking about if he likes me or not. and then i was talking to my friend eric and i was like i dont think robbie likes me anymore. hes like he likes u. and then he was like he just isnt good at talking with girls but i talked to him about it dont worry. so now i dont know what to do like if he likes me or not/ if he doesnt he shouldnt lead me on and like put his arm around me?
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Well if he is in your school you should just confront him because he can't like get out of that situation when you asked upfront. Because you really need to know so he needs to let you know if he likes you or not so you can try to make things work or move on.
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Q: There is this guy i have liked for awhile. Im pretty good friends with him. And everytime i see him i just want to run up and tell him how i feel. And i just want to be with him every second of the day because he is such a great guy! He is single too!!! I don't know what to do. Im way to shy to just come out and say it to him...but i just wish he would know. How do i go about doing this besides being straight forward about it?
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Drop hints. Like I really want a boyfriend right now and you could say yeah I like this guy I don't know what to do though I don't think he likes me. And talking on the phone with him always helps because your not as shy on the phone and random things could pop up. Good Luck.
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Q: Dear avice columnist,
there is this really hot guy that goes to my school.He is so nice to me.but he has this girlfriend that is really pretty nd he is head over heals for her.I mean lyk in LOVE LOVE LOVE with her.But the thing is that when ever we are watching a movie in science class he turns around and talks to me sits on me lays on me nd my heart skips a beat everytime he does.But I dont think that he really likes me because of this over girl. she is Rich,can do alot of flips and splits in cheer and is pretty,so I dont think that he does but that does not keep me from wondering well maybe he does but I dont know.
Thank you,
Does he like me
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Awww, I'm so sorry...I've been there before I know how your feeling. Maybe you should just see how the relationship is going, things can't last forever...if they seem like it's getting ruff or they're about to break up you should move in and kind of hint that your interested. Trying to break them up wouldn't be the best thing because this girl sounds kind of bitchy and she might get a little mad lol. He definitely shows some interest in you but he does really like his gf. Try and get closer with him...like talk to him more and get his number or screen name or something. Hope I helped.
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Q: i really like this guy and he likes me but i don`t want a boyfriend at the moment cuz of all this drama thats been going on and im just not sure..whats huld i do?
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Well if you don't want a bf at the time....don't lead him on to thinking that you do. I guess just tell him straight up, you don't want a boyfriend because of all the drama but that you really like him. When you do feel like you want a boyfriend let him know..although he might have moved on.
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Q: PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!!
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Yeah, I have been in that situation before. Well I would just keep on talking to him and maybe just see how things go.
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Q: the guy i like knows and i dont really like him its just a crush bc i dont kno him. my friend told him i like him (and the dude i like is best friends with my friend that told him). a couple days ago Max (thats his name the guy i like) checked me out and i thought it was a good sign. he was looking at me i found out, but today in math class he came in the door from the classroom next door and said "whos chloe?" and this gurl Beki pointed at me and he said "oh ok" and closed the door. i feel like im going to get rejected. what if max talks to me on tuesday and i turn bright red like i did last time? he'll think im a freak....help!
~Chloe*
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Awww, don't worry about it so much babe. It isn't a big deal. I know, i hate when the person I like knows and I don't really want them to because it isn't a big deal. You probably won't get rejected though because if he checked you out then that shows he has interest. Even if you do it'll be ok. If he talks to you don't worry about it just pretend like it's any other guy and he has no idea that you like him. Relax.
I hope I helped a little.
Much
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Q: I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i had been hearing stuff like that he was all over other girls. But then when i broke up with him he cried infront of all of his friends and everything. I still love him a lot and want to be with him but we've gone out 5 times and i just dont know if this time he means it. He's also my best friend and he told me that he loved me and would do anything to get me back! So what should i do.. go back out with him, stay broken up or just take a break?
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I think that if said he really loves you and would do anything to get you back then he isn't lying, because there isn't any reason why you would say that without meaning it. And as you said that you love him to maybe you should go back out with him, but maybe you should talk to him about what you have been hearing and then just give him another chance.
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Q: My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that.
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I understand that you are just not ready so you could tell him that straight out. Just say do you think we could wait I'm not ready to do that stuff really, or you could tell him that you have your period but really that excuse only works for a bout a month. Not trying to pressure you or anything but getting fingered really isn't all too bad. It actually could bring you to closer. The first time that happened to me was woah a long time ago, now im 17, but I was kinda scared and kept making excuses why i couldn't then finally i gave up and really it isn't as bad as you think.-Hope I helped!
Much
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Hey guyz!! I'm Ryah-which is short for Mahryah but all my friends call me Ryah so you people can! :) lol Well I'm 17 years old and I'm a senior in high school and I live in Maryland! I love to help people and I try as best as I can and I'm not rude and ignorant like some people on this site! So if anyone wants any help and don't want to post it for the public then send me a message and I'll try and help you! Love yahs!
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Gender: Female Location: MarYLaNd Occupation: SuBwAy BaBy! lol Age: 17 Member Since: October 10, 2004 Answers: 47 Last Update: May 31, 2005 Visitors: 3618
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