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whats a a way i can surprise my boyfriend. i need something like romantic and sexy a day that us to can just be lost in love. help please!
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Daniella (link)
dk how old you guys are but..
the candle thing is always good.
or cuddle with him in bed and watch movies and eat ice cream or something like that.


I've had a girlfriend for about 5½ yrs now and I really love her and all and I want to move our realonship up a bit and I don't know how. I was thinking about making love to her when it was the right time for her but im just afraid she won't be happy with my size. Were both virgins and I really don't want to hurt her. Do you think moving our realonship up a bit is worth a shot?
Also do you think 11 inches will really hurt a girl badly, especially if shes a virgin?

Please Be Nice I Rate 5's (link)
the first time..yea it would..but if you both love each other then dont you think its worth it?


Me and my bf have gone out for 6 yrs.
Well one day I started to get tired of seeing him 24/7
So I told him that and I think he thought we were breaking up.
I only wanted alittle alone time
A week later I saw him with another girl
and I asked him what was going on
but he told me we broke up so he moved on.
Now im really jealous and been trying to to tell my bf I never really wanted to breakup with him I just wanted alone time and he keeps saying thats considered breaking up.
Does anyone have any advice on what I could do? (link)
just sit down face to face with him and tell him exactly what you meant to happen. if he doesnt understand then its his fault..tell him you need your space..idk what else to tell you. hope i helped.


my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationshiip i love him and he says he loves me neither one of us wanted to fall in love with the each other but we are the thing is though sometimes i have doubts about our relationship and wanna call it off but he said he'd be dissapointed and hurt if i did i don't wanna hurt him nor do i wanna lose him i just want everything to be right between us, he is a great guy so what should i do when i start to doubts about our relationshipsor his love (link)
talk to him and tell him how you feel..if you feel like you don't love him or if you doubt it then you probably don't..don't stay with him just because you don't wanna hurt him..to me it's kinda like using him u know? just be honest with him and let him know whats going on and what you're thinking. hope i helped.


I want to do something fun and exciting on a date wiht my bf. somethin that will really be fun. any ideas (link)
go to the lake (if possible)..theres always something to do out at the lake..it can be both fun/romantic..or go gokarting..miniature golf always brings alotta laughs..i dont really know anything else..just try something that you dont do on a regular day. have fun!


I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :( (link)
im sorry that happened..but theres nothing wrong with you just for crying. its normal..but if he said those things to you..then obviously he's not worth crying over. leave me something in my box if you need anything.


Ok theres this kid i know, and we met at camp. were always making eye contact and at the dance he waited til the last song to ask me to dance.. i kno i like him, but im not sure if he likes me.. i wanna talk to him more but when i talk to him i get all shy and stop talkin. Wat are some good topics to talk to him about and do u think he could possibly like me?
please anything!
i rate 5's!! (link)
find out what he likes..and talk about things you like & find out what you both have in common..that'll open the door of more things for you two to talk about and do. then once you get to know about him more..if you cant tell for sure that he lieks you..just ask him..never hurts to try!


I really like this guy and well I try to tell myself that I don't. I have been going out with him on and off for a few years and well everytime we go out after a while he likes another girl and he goes out with her (he's done this twice to me) and so he breaks up with me.. we are still friends and talk but it kills me and I try to tell myself I don't like him because he's sorta a "player" but I don't know what to do...?? (link)
if you tell yourself you dont like him..then you probably really dont. and even if you do..you say hes done it to you twice..well he'll probably do it again..so why not find someone who you know that you like that wont do that to you.


Okay let me warn you this thing will be like 2000 characters, but let me start by saying i met this girl when i came to missouri to visit my grandma, we like eachother, well we love eachother, i dont feel like i could live wtihout her...we dated last year and broke up and then i tried for a year to get her back and finally did, however i found these questions asked on advicenators..about her ex..while we were going out:

*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*

i knew her ex was coming over to get the scrapbook but she said that was it and that she didnt have feelings anymore and what not...but the most painful is the next one...

hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME!

sent while we were going out yet again, i love her with all my heart and i dont know what to do, i finally won her back and i dont want to let her go but i feel like its just a game and she is playing me. Should i keep her or let her go? any advice? (link)
you should sit down and talk to her and tell her how you feel about her and find out if she feels the same or not. maybe she's just confused on how you feel about her..if you tell her how you feel & how much you love her..then maybe her hearing it will help. im sorry i couldnt be much help..i dont really know of anything else. anymore questions..feel free to ask.



There is this guy I like but he dosen't even know I'm alive, how should I get him to notice
me?? (link)
Just go up to him and start talking to him and be yourself..find out what he likes to do and maybe you guys will have something in common..do things he likes to do..get to know him..that will also give him more of a chance to know who you are..hope i helped




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