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hey im sarah! i like shopping and being a princess! i prefer fashion and boy questions but ill answer anything!

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There's this boy I've liked for a long time, since Bush won his 2nd term (I'm 13/f, by the way). Over that time, we've become pretty good friends. Yesterday, he asked me who I liked and I wouldn't tell, because I didn't want him to know. Especially considering the fact that he just got a girlfriend (he's also 13). Then he kept begging and nagging and kept saying that he wouldn't tell anyone and that he keeps secrets well (I know that for a fact, but still I didn't want him to know). After a while, I decided to tell him, because if he kept it up, he'd find out eventually because if it seemed that I sincerely didn't want him to know (even though I've trusted him with other stuff), the truth would be very plain. So I told him, and I said I was sorry. He's really really nice, but I'm really worried that he thinks I'm an asshole. I don't know what to do! I've never liked anyone in my whole life. Do 13-year-old boys usually think their friends are assholes in this kind of situation? How can I stay friends with him? CAN I still stay friends with him? This is long and will most likely get rated down, but I don't have anywhere else to get help! And I know that problems of a 13-year-old aren't as important as questions asked by older people, but this IS an advice site, and the site IS open to 13-year-olds.

I dont think that you should worry about it to much. Boys are pretty simple for the most part and dont get worked up over that kind of thing. If he wanted to know so bad, he cant get mad at you for telling the truth. He might even like you back! He probbly just feels a little bit uncomforatable around you now(guys get like that sometimes)but im sure he will get over it soon and move on. Hope it works out for you.
Sarah

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Ok, my name is Adrianna and i'm fifteen. And I (Obviously) need some help. See, people at my school think i'm a poser. And it really pisses me off. Because I have NEVER talked to any of the people that call me it. So they base it all on the way I dress. Call me crazy but, I have always bought things based on if I liked them or not. So I shop everywhere. Hot topic, Abercrombie and Fitch, JCPennys, hell even the thrift store if I really like it. So like, I want people to understand that i'm not trying to be something, i'm not trying to be a "Punk" or a "Prep" I could honestly give a shit less. I understand that not everyone is going to like you but, it really upsets me that people don't like me based on the clothes I wear. I don't know what to do. I want these people to just stop.


Ugh, I know this is stupid and cliched. So bear with me.

I know what how your feeling. Basically, its just a part of high school, people start to label others. Why dont you try and start talking to some of the people that call you a "poser". I think that if you are nice to everyone and dont get caught up in the drama, then things will work out. Usually as people start getting older, they get more mature and will not be so judgemental. I hope i have helped you some. Good luck!
Sarah

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Im14, and recently my brothers friends have been calling me and asking my brother stuff like how old is ur sis and whats she like and stuff. and i like some of them like i think that they are cute. and my brother has been threatening them and he doesnt have many friends...should i talk to him? or pretend like i dont notice his friends> or what??
thanks.

naturally your brother is going to be protective of you, but if you want him to back off a little just talk to him, tell him nicely that you really appreciate him sticking up for you but that you would really like to try and make your own desecions on who you talk to, maybe even let him know ahead of time that you like one of his freinds. hope i helped

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ok i really like this guy and we talk online and stuff and we used 2 talk all the time in school and stuff but since schools over i never see him! my friend told him that i like him and he started flirting more and stuff but i dont know if he thought my friend was joking or something. i know i should tell him myself, but whats a good way of telling him without him like freaking out haha. please help cause i need to tell him soon cause i really want him to hear it from me! thanx!

give him signs just flirt with him and maybe even ask him who he likes, if he really does like you hell pick up on your signs and get it then you should feel more comfortable just coming out and telling him that you like him(its the best way usually) well i hope that helped good luck!

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