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I'm Hillary. I'm honest. Really incredibly blunt. So don't have a heart attack, k?

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I like this kid named Orlando...I just look at him and I melt. But the thing is, I've never ever talked to him before, and he's never talked to me before and I'm so confused because I don't think it's just a crush, and he is just so cute and funny from what I've seen from him.
In the beginning of the day at school all the students have to go into the cafeteria because classes didn't start yet...and usually I walk in and only him and his friend are there and he looks at who came into the caferteria and I feel like I'm gonna trip or something because his stare catches me off guard....
As you can tell...I like this kid, and my mom works for the Board Of Ed in that particular city, and she lets me do some extra help with her work and she pays me for it. Well, since he goes to the school in the city my mom works for, one day when i was doing a job I came across his address. So my question is, do you think it would be like I'm stalking him or something if I write him a letter just saying how I felt about it...because I'm only going to write it when this school year is over so if anything happens I'm not there. (I know..but I'm shy and I feel like this is the only way I could do it) If I explain to him in the letter that I'm that girl (because he's seen me before, and noticed me) then do you think this is a good idea? Please help me...I really want him to know, but I'm extremely shy.
I'm very sorry for the length, but Im desperate.

Do you know much about him? Find out about the guy first. Maybe if one of your friend's is friend's with him, she could casualy slip you into conversation, or introduce you. Maybe you could even persuade her to invite you all to a group outing. Take the chance to talk with him, get to know him. I would say, no, don't send him a letter. He would probably be a little creeped out or feel tricked or something.

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You didn't have to give a whole huge paragraph. . . It was a simple YES OR NO!

And I did not start liking them because I heard them On the radio!! Just because Hold on is on the radio woopey thats oly because they made a new music vid for it and its soo brand new. . but its on the younge and the hopeless cd. . And simple plan addicted and perfect were new. . and I only like The Girl All The Bad Guys want and Punk rock 101 from bowling for soup. . the rest of their songs suck. . So lay off a little atleast you arnt saying they are pop. .which they arnt they are soo not mainstream. . unless you know of any station that plays bowling for soups songs let me know, cuz I never hear hem on the radio nor Simple Plan the only song i hear is hold on from good charlotte, but that'll end soon. . their are alot of bands on the radio. . so I would keep quiet. I like rock and not mainstream rock either. . thanks for your comment tho!!! bye

Well thanks for answering rationally, which is more than some people care to do. :/ I was just putting thought into my answer, I personally don't like it when people just spew off answers with out thinking about it. It makes me think they don't really care about answering my query, they're just trying to get up the number of questions they've answered. So yeah.

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thye were foudn in a dictionary 4 a punk. . thye dont know about the lifestyle. . thye r thinkin like *gte back here u little punk* its a lifestyle

OK, Seriously. I know i said i was deleting all further questions, but Oh my GOD. just...just...*bangs head against keyboard* IT'S PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT MAKE ME NEED MEDICATION, DAMMIT!!

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just shut up! GOdDD All iw ant to do is take some of the punk style and add it to my own. . and their is no punk crowd. .

D00d, you are the one that keeps sending me questions and shit. You seriously need to get a life, and stop being so sensitive. Don't ask for advice on a PUBLIC forum if you can't take what people are going to say. The end. I am disregarding all further emails from you. Dont be a stalker.

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their are no punks, and those defnitions r wrong I dont want to be it for anyone but myself!

Actually, if you go to www.dictionary.com, you'll find that those definitions are right.

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ur mean, Im sorry but ur advice stinks. . Its not gonna happen cuz their r no punks at my school, i dont want o be like them I wnat ot be like me. . an dim sick of being what htye wnat me to be! S LET ME BE THIS~

Nobody's saying you can't be what you want. So you're sick of being what they want you to be? When you're saying you want to be a punk, it looks to me like you are just conforming to another stereotype. And if you're tired of conforming to exactly what they want, chances are you'll get tired of being inside the "punk" box and you'll want to break out eventually. And people in your life are not going to be nice. It's called the real world. I suggest you enter it.

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I wanna be what i feel like being! But if people start rejecting me, my life will be horrible I wanna be a punk is that a bad choice? I already aske dmy mom she seems fine with it. .and well I want that change! but should I not do it, 4 my friends?

Definition of punk:

1. Of poor quality; worthless.
2. Weak in spirits or health.
3. A young person, especially a member of a rebellious counterculture group.
4. An inexperienced young man.
5. A young man who is the sexual partner of an older man.
6. Prostitute
7. An aggressive young criminal


Don't change to fit a specific image. You will never be satisfied. You will find youself asking yourself, "Is this shirt punk enough? Will the punk kids think i'm trying to hard?" And then when you come to the descision that it's not punk enough, you will throw it out, all because you thought some kids who entertain the punk culture wouldn't like it. Not because you didn't like it. Because you thought they wouldn't like it. Is that what you want to be? And another scenario is: You're friends think that you "going punk" is weird. They ditch you. The so-called punk kids at your school saw what crowd you hung out with before you became a "punk." The crowd that made fun of them for dressing punk before it became popular. Do you think they are going to accept you as "one of them?" I know I wouldn't. So really think about this. Is it worth sacrificing your life, dignity, mind, and whatever else for some trend that will be out of style in less than a year?

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ok, first i need to tell u this whole story

last year i met him, and we were distant friends, i guess if thats what u wanna call it, now, this year, we are like, brother sister close. except, i dont want to be. i want to be more. i told him this....but on the same day that 3 other girls told him about their love for him too!. He told me that he doesn't want to choose between all of us because he knows that somebody will get hurt. Also, he had liked this same girl for a while. even if he didnt like her, i would still be callin her a biotch. i dont see why he likes her, she is a serious bitch and rude to everybody...you have no clue. she is goin out with somebody right now tho.anyways. i want him to be happy. thats why im not going to try to make him ask me out, because i want him to be happy. it hurts to see him everyday and be so close to him, when i know it cant be anything more. i know that he doesnt love me in that way. i need to get over this, but i dont know how.

help!?!?

If the girl is seeing someone else, you should tell him, even if you don't want to hurt him. By not telling him this you could be hurting him. You can't force yourself to get over it. Just wait, and eventually you'll find someone new, or maybe you'll decide boys aren't worth it.

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