hi again I am in a sticky situatioun see i said yes to a boy i dont want to go out with him now i want to break up with him and i dont want to break our friendship our him never talk to me ever again he is very nice but i dont want to go out with him please understand
Honestly, just tell him exactly what you wrote up there. That you really don't like him as much as you thought you did and you would just like to be friends. Tell him you think he is a nice guy and that he should understand.
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okay - there is this boy i have been going out with for about a month or two - well lately he has been get on my NERVES!! - and i think i have lost feelings for him - and i dont no if i have or not - like we will go somewhere and he will be trying to get all like close to me and try to kiss me and - yes we have kissed before but i just dont like kissing him - you know what i mean? and i really dont want to break up with him but i just dont know if i have lost feelings for him or not!
so please help me!
thanks
Okay. This is pretty common. Once you go out with some one for about a month or two, the feeling of true love and all of that stuff starts to fade. Thats what you are starting to feel right now. that is why most realashionships don't last very long. Don't break up with him yet. I think that you should just tell him that you need to talk to him. You should take a walk, or go on a nice quiet date with just the two of you and just talk to him. Get to know him better. He won't try to get all close to you when it is just the two of you. Try telling him how you feel and ask him what he feels also. A key part of having a realashonship is knowing what your parter feels. You have to work through things so that they will work out in your favor.
Hope I helped. :)
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I'm a nice and friendly person, but sometimes I feel like I'm viewed as weak. Not as in physically, but I feel like I'm an easy person to overlook. Can I have examples of how others could view me as an equal.
Ex. don't follow people around...go off on your own if you don't feel welcome.
Stuff like that...thank you!
I think that you should just be yourself and get a group of friends that care about you. When people see how your friends view you, they will want to get to know you. People can be a great way to get noticed.
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"There's a guy I like at work, and I think he might like me, although he already has a girlfriend. We're friends, and I think we flirt a bit (I know I do), but I'm wondering how I might take it to the next level. Any suggestions??"
you could ask other people at work if they have noticed anything between you to or if he has said anything about you to them. If they have noticed something, you could keep flirting with him and maybe he will ask you out. if they havn't noticed anything, then you should probably back off.
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