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I've got an EX who I went out with for about 2 years and we got together broke up got together so many times. We broke up over in the summer and got back together and he broke up wiht me that day. We've been dating around. I am like obcessed with the kid and I don't care how many times he breaks my heart I can't get over him and so he has been asking out like all my best friends and he is going out with a girl right now and he is sorta cheating on her with me and he likes me a little and ofcourse I like him..He doesn't want to get back together with me yett..I don't kno what to do because I kno he will soon but should I just forgot about him I mean he is a great guy and a great boyfriend and I can't see myself with anyone else. I don't know what to do. Please Help!

if hes cheating on som1, hes not a great guy...gett rid of him, he'll cheat on u if he cheats on som1 else.

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ok here's the deal... i'm 14 years old...FRESHMAN!!!.... and i realli realli want to find a boyfriend... but i keep falling for the players... they're always so nice and funny and cute... i just can't get away from them...
then there'z these...other...guys that are totalli not cute at all, but are realli realli nice... what should i do?

dont be shallow, try the not so hott guys

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I really like this guy and he said that he won't really know if he likes me until he gets to know me better, but when I talk to him online he says that we should get together sometime and says that we should do stuff. I'm not like that, but I guess he seems to think so. We haven't really talked in person, but we have a class together. What should I do?

talk to him in person!

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hey im a 13 male and since 6th grade (im in 8th grade now) i've been getting a few annoying crushes. so let me striaghten this. i hate having crushes. why? because they're on people that play no point in my life. 6th grade was an ok crush, at least i talked to the girl often, but 7th grade, i must have heard 20 words from the girl towards me all year, she was a tom boy and i played no point in her life, and hers in mine, though i had a crush on her. now, in 8th grade, i do believe i have yet another on a girl that hasn't said ONE word to me. dont tell me to talk to her, i just want it to go away. why am i getting crushes on girls that i havent even spoken 2. this girl is in 3 of my classes, and i dont know i just like her. like i dont even have to hear her voice and i like her. its strange, just people with a certan air about them, i favor. mods dont delete. its just bugging me. is this normal?

yeah this is normal...if ur atracted to them...but u may need to talk to them, ull get to know em better and if u still like them then go for it, but if u dont then ur crush will be over with.

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Hey, My name is Megan, and i'm 15. I've always been treated pretty bad in school. I don't think i'm fat or ugly, but everyone calls me ugly. I don't know why they would say things to hurt me, and it makes me feel bad all the time, though I try to hide it. Today at lunch, someone gave me a joke love letter of someone I know asking me to homecomming. (The one who gave me the note hates me) When I opened it, a fry with ketchup on it fell on my white skirt, and ruined it. They all laughed it up, while a friend of mine yelled at them. I don't understand why people do the things they do to me, I try to ignore them, but you know, it hurts. I just wish people at my school would treat me like a human. I'm not mean to people, i'm nice. I don't talk about people I keep to myself...what is wrong with me?

nothing...they might just be jealous of you.

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at school once, i farted really loud on accident...see...i sneezed and it popped out! no one will let me live it down...what do i say to them?

ask if they can do better, make a joke out of it and then they wont make fun of you for it cuz they know you dont care.

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okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him?

its means ur jealous, if thats the case then u like him, at least a lil bit. just let things play out or just tell him.

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Me and my boyfriend seem happy with each other. Like he always talks about us being together forever and is always making future plans. I like that bc that is that the kind of realationship that i want, but he lives about 40 min. away from me and the seeing him thing isnt really a problem (i dont want to see someone everyday, i get kind of annoyed by that) so that isnt the issue. I am just worried about him doing stuff behind my back... like he checks out other girls INFRONT of me and talks about them near me too. He says wow their hot and stares them down.. stuff like that. So that kinda scares me. I talk to him about this, but he says that he isnt gonna ever do this to me and that he likes me too much to go for any other girl. Should i belive him?

yes, unless you have lost your trust in him, then you have nothing to not belive him for.

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