I'm Skylar! Im good with all the teen advice things like friends, and fashion, and everything around there.
I didnt go to harvard. I didnt paint the monalisa(i didnt even spell that right...). I wont be a valedictorian and I've never saved a life. But i understand things... I see how they work. I'm a deep thinker, ill ponder things alot. Mostly people, and life and all the phillisophical types of things...
But im more than just that. I'm a teenage girl. A student. A friend. A lover. An athlete. A writer. A party girl and someones who wants to give advice and help others.
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Well im 13F and im going into the eigth grade in 2 weeks exactly. And well theres this boy Jeff-14 and ive been in love with him for almost 3 years now adn we are not dating but we were back in march and january and febuary and he used to live in the trailer park my Mom lived in and well he lovesss my little sisters that are 2 and 4 and i was the one who showed them to him and then he started to date my cousin brttany (this was in 6th grade) and so i got a little jealous about it and me and him babysat my sisters alot when my Mom would go to summerville and when we would hand eachother the littlest baby Alyssa we would always get really close together and sometime touch eachother. He went with us trick-or-treating one year and when we got home he threw a highlighter at me and so i threw it back and then we chased eachother around and then we got in trouble for it (lol) and had to look for my Moms highlighter and we always hung out then one day in 7th grade my Mom was going to pick me up from school and instead of riding the bus he walked to the trailer park (wasnt too far) and well he was on the road when me and my Mom passed him and so we picked him up and he had to sqeeze in the back seat with me (my sis was in the front) and well he touched my leg with his hand then got really stiff and cleared his throat then started conversation. And then my friend Jenni tolded me to ask him out. I had never been so scared in my life! ive never been like that with a boy. and so i put a note in his locker and he said yes. Well he would always put his arms around me and call me baby and grab my butt and stuff like that. Then one day 3 months later he broke up with me and i was devastated. I cried for days. Ive been fighting for him back since march and well i think hes falling back in love with me. Me adn him got the same team this year for school so im really nervous. Is there anything i can do to chill and relax and shwo him i still love him without being a tramp. Like getting him to notice me and want to go out with me? Thanks and i really love this websites advice it really helps me.Thanks! (link)
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Play it cool. Don't let him worry you so much. If you try to hard it'll look desperate to him, and then he will just walk away.
Make him talk to you first for awhile. Give him a hint that your getting bored trying to catch him because he isn't trying much back. It will drive him crazy that the attention your giving him is lower, and you will be on his mind all the time because of it.
Over time he will realize how much he likes you, and work hard for you. Once he does this then go back to the way you used to be, that is, once hes back where you want him to be.
Never ever ask him out again with a note. Consult everything to his face, and just relax. Guys like confident girls.What you need to do is realize you and him aare equal, and theres no need for you to not be relaxed, especially with him since he knows you well.
Well, i hope i helped!
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i use to be friends with this girl who i went to school with. ever sicne school ended we havnt hung out not because were not friends but because we havnt seen each other and she has a serious boyfriend.
we are going on the same year long program next year and i hurd she is talkign sh*t about me.
she is really coniving and munipulative and im scared shell ruin my year.
she really wants to break away from her school friends and on the orrentation she already showed how shes going to act towards me on the program.
she really scares me and knocks down my confidence and as much as everyone will say dont let her ruin your year and theyll b other people im still worried for her.
im not going to speak to her because im not even soppose to know the sh*t she spoke about me,\.
wut do i do?
is it weird ot change programs? (link)
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don't change programs, because then your so called "friends" will only be more satisfied that your gone.
Shes no friend if shes talking shit, so you need to just shake her off your shoulder because you deserve better.
I know i know, its hard. You still care and have hope that maybe she will still treate u like a best friend and pay attention to you. But does she really deserve your time? Does she deserve your attention?
Maybe you should try confronting her, talking it out. I suggest doing that in front of a crowd too, in a large group of people. That way, if she tries to lie out of it then everyone will know shes a lier. And if she is just mean back to you, then everyone will realize shes just a bitch.
If she wants to break away from her school friends, then let her. Without school friends though she will have no one to sit with at lunch, no one to walk with in the halls, and no one at social events.
So if shes being a bad friend to you, and doesnt even put in effort to hang with you, then let her dig her own grave. Just remember not to let her pull u down into it too(which is what shes doing by lower your confidence).
Once her and her bf break up, she will have no one. And then what.....she'll come running back to you...? we will see...
Anyways, good luck! i really hope this works out for you, because i have friend problems really similar to this, and i know how difficult and stressful and loney it makes you feel :(
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How can i find someones weaknesses and get into their head? I'm not trying to be rude when I say this, but if you're going to answer my question saying that this is wrong and immature and that karma will get me than please don't bother responding. Thanks. (link)
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I guess, in order to find someones weakness you have to get to know them. If you cant do that, then you need to get to know their friends...or at least ask other people what bothers that person.
What do you need this weakness for anyways?
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Okay, so i am your typical teenager gilr. I am going to the 8th grade, well alot of my friends have made out and sent some pictures to there boyfriends well i dont really know if i am ready for that. I am the far behind one because i cant talk to my mom about kissing or anything she will spaz out. But is this a bad thing that i dont know how to make out.? I just dont understand the point in it. And i ge made fun of all the time because of it. So should i do this or should i just say the way i am.? Help please. (link)
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You know, i never asked my mom how to makeout. I feel like shed probably get mad at me to... but there are other ways to find out.
Making out is actually pretty simple, and alot of fun. I learned to makeout through experiance. I got a boyfriend who had also never made out before, so that way we could learn together and wouldnt be embarrassed if we were bad cause the other wouldnt know any better.
Or, heck, practice on your wrist, no one will know.
It'll come naturally when you actually start making out, so dont sweat it. you have nothing to worry about.
As for people making fun of you, that makes no sense. How could people make fun of you for not knowing how to make out? What do they say?
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Hello, I'm 15. My boyfriends 17. >.< We both reached an older age, this July. .< thanks. (link)
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I've kissed plenty in the high school halls, and not once have i been caught. Hell...i see people making out and ontop of each other in the high school halls, trust me, nothing will happen.
I think the reason you probably got in trouble was because you got caught kissing someone who is quite a few years older when your around people your age. I dont think its bad to show public affection, but teachers and parents probably thought that it was inappropriate exposure for other kids your age to see.
Plus, as you get older, teachers care less about students having personal space and more about all the dreaded papers they have to correct.
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