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-Hey world I've been on here awhile now i just wanna say being on here has been great! im not a specailist but im here for anyone that needs someone to talk to. :) feel free to ask me anything and don't feel ashamed, im not here to judge.we all have daily battles,but it doesn't mean we have to face them alone.with that being said I look forward to meeting you ;)
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im girl 17,i told my classmate(boy) who is also my crush in the concrete i gave him a note, saying i like him..two days later, i asked him to talk about it bc he didnt give any respond and i wanted to how he feels ,during school,i asked him if we could go and talk somewhere private , he said it is nice that i told him about my feelings for him,he also told me that he know how hard it must´ve been for me to hide my feelings from him.then he said he doesnt have time for relationship bc he has activites besides school (he plays guitar, he dances)and also he told me he firstly wants to develop more spiritually..(if that makes sense) bc we go to catholic church ,and then he hugged me saying that we should continue to be friends and then i deleted him from my friends on fb during summer holidays bc i was always checking if he is online.now is new school year and he found out i removed him from my friends on fb, and he texted me why i did that, and if he did something wrong he is sorry , i told him i did it bc it hurts me and that i dont want to be friends, and he said it´s ok, i thought it would hurt less, but it hurts me more ,now i ignore him bc i dont know how to act to him..he sent me friend request on fb but i didnt accept it yet..he was good friend to me before i told him about my feelings..please help me should i be his friend again or not? if yes what should i tell him,why i suddenly accepted his friend request on fb,and also today is his birthday, should i wish him happy birthday even i removed him from my friends??..thanks for help :) (link)
I'm sorry for the late response. Talk to him and tell him were upset. He cares about you and it's anxious that you still care. I think that you had a right to be disappointed. However , your friend was being honest he wouldn't have the time to give you the attention that you deserve at least he was honest and took into consideration that maybe it's best that you both should remain friends. Maybe in the future you both can date. I'm sorry for the late reply . I hope this helps.


I don't really know that my guy likes me or not but i think so that kind of he likes me ......... But sometimes he just shows that he hates to hell and sometimes he just turns back looks at me....... i seriously don't know what to do plz!!!!! I am from INDIA (link)
Well, depending on your age guys show how much they like a girl depending on their age. Also it also depends on the guy .. seeing that he's looking at you is kinda tricky to say. If he stares at you til you notice and he acts shy.. Then he probably does. Do you guys speak to each other? I think you should try talking to him. . If not maybe try doing things to show him that you like him (if you like him back) overall it really just depends on the type of guy he is. But I do strongly advise to talk to him. Good luck I hope this helped in some way ♡


I really want to be popular. Not popular as in "hello, im stuck up and im better than everybody." I wanna be popular as in BE FRIENDS WITH EVERYONE! i dont know how to start a conversation with strangers. any suggestions on how i can achieve this? (link)
my advice is just be your self i know it doesnt seem right but trust me it is nothing like having friends you can be around.


My freinds always get bf but i really want one i think im to fat or ugly, i pretty popular but i dont see what's wrong i need some adcice im so jelous of my freinds.............My freind just got a new bf and my bother freind keeps getting asked out by everybody. (link)
my advice to you is dont put yours self down your a beautiful person i never saw you but i know that you are.and there are a lot of people that are asked out alot. but there not always happy.and know that you probley see alot of guys you think are cute but most guys know a days are jerks.iknow you may not belive but there is a guy some where that will make you happy it takes patience but it will happen.oh and before i go be happy for your freinds your day will come sorry its kinda long .hope i helpedyou a little.


I'm a thirteen year old girl.Ever since grade three, the boys keep making fun of me. Whether its my skin color or how I am. I never told on them and I don't want to. If my parents hear this, they will be really sad. Before, When I was seven, my parents and I stayed in a house with an old lady who was really grumpy. She hated me. Pushed me in the hallways, frowns at me, and put a smoking matchstick on my leg :(. Okay, that was old, but now, In school....people make fun of me. Everyone except few who have kind hearts. Whenever some guys see me, they keep saying "HOLY _____!" my name :(
I really want this to stop. It has been three years, and they can't leave me alone and live my frigging life. I feel like running away. Telling my parents to go to our home country. But they wont go there...because my dad needs to work in a country like this where people in my school teases me. I really don't want to tell on them. But I wish my life would be better. Is there anyways I could get my parents to make me move to my home country? I really want to go! :( And, don't just tell me to ignore them. Because this is what I have been doing for the last 2 and a half years. I can't talk to them either, because they start to make more fun of me and diss me. :( PLEASE HELP! I WILL BE REALLY THANKFUL TO YOUR HELPFUL SUGGESTIONS. (link)
remember that you are beautiful no matter of your color and that you should tlk to a counsler to see if they can do something about it hope i have kind of helped


this boy in the year above me is really nice and i fancyed him for awhile but i dont any more i now love him, he knows i like him and has got a girlfriend and he recently told one of my boy mates that he will never evere ever get with me wich made me really upset an i cried. so i worked out that theres no point in loving him and now i wont to forget about him and move on but i cant because i still love him an i see him at lot round school. how can i get over him ? (link)
well u love him so it will be hard to forget him bt u have to take it one step at a time take it easy hope every thing work out


I live in massachusetts and I have such bad problems at my highschool thhat I just cannot go back (dnt tell me to suck it up lol) and I want to go to another school in a different town. I called the next town overs highschool and they won't let me='( ..are they jus saying tat? Ks there ANY way I can get into that school without living in that town?!?!
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I know this isn't the best idea bt mb you should see if the school has any online courses!




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