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Q: so i've liked this guy for 4 straight years. and he's known that. i've never had a full on conversation with him. he now has a girlfriend and whenever he's with her and i come around he will kiss her in front of me, or tell her she's beautiful and that he loves her. oh, and he will say it loud enough for me to hear. before he has a this girlfriend he would look at me constantly and it seemed like he would always want to get my attention. he still does that now, but not as much. Do you think he's trying to make me jealous? is he trying to see what my reaction is? cause honestly though i'm not jealous.
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Dont read to much into it, it could just be a coincidence. but if its not, just shrug it off and do your own thing, have fun, smile, laugh and let him see your happy. Plus you said your not jealous so show it.
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Q: My younger sister has always straight A's on EVERYTHING. While I on the other hand make A's through D's. I never used to make anything below a C+ but this past school year was hard for me. I had other responsibilities that distracted me from my school work and deprived me of sleep. I used to stay up for hours every night doing my homework and projects. School owned my life. Ive NEVER seen my sister do homework, study, or do ANYTHING school related. And when it comes to common sense, she's pretty stupid. My parents are disappointed in me and always compare me to her, and I hate it. I think there's something wrong with me thats making it so much harder for me to learn. I always zone out after a while, or take much longer to realize things that most people get RIGHT AWAY. My parents say Im a failure, even though i havent even failed anything yet. Something is wrong with me because my GPA has dropped tremendously. Any suggestions?
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Its great to see you WANT to learn. Dont let words get to you, do YOUR best and gradually your grades will pick up.
To focus more in school try things like:
- Sitting with someone your unlikely going to be distracted by.
-Making brief notes during class (will help study)
-If no homework is given take this as a time to study.
-make a time table, this helps planning your time; make sure to include lesiure time ;)
With your parents, let them know your doing your best; show them your acheviements and your progress.
good luck
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Q: So, I've been friends with this guy for three almost four years, he and his friend are my two best friends in the whole world. Well, I broke up with my boyfriend for a year and I recently started liking this guy again, I liked him before I started dating my ex. Well The other day we were hanging out I was playing with my sisters phone and I read a text from him that said he liked her [I know I shouldn't be snooping] I got really sad but I was dealt with it. Well two days later me him and our other best friend went up to an amusement park because they both got jobs there and one of them had orientation. Well we waited for an hour for him to finish up and he kissed me. I was so happy. We had a camping trip coming of for spring break so I was pretty excited. Our friend came outside after orientation and caught us kissing! He pretended like he didn't but he told me later he saw us. Well I was so happy I liked a guy and he liked me too! :] Well the camping trip came and we shared a tent and while I was falling asleep he woke me up and asked me out. I was so excited. When I got home I went and told my sister. She laughed so hard then said "He's a slut he kissed me like three days ago." I had never been more upset, but him asking me out counts for something right? Well since then everyone has been giving me crap about it. He came over and my brother came downstairs and said. How do you like your sister's sloppy seconds, my mom said she doesn't like him because he kissed my sister then me, and my sister said she doesn't even like him so i shouldn't care. Do I have a reason to care. It makes me so upset :[ I don't know what to do.
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the fact that he kissed your sister and then you, is a bad sign. This starts your relationship off on a bad foot, and will cause later problems. Talk to him about it and find were he is on a mental level. By the sounds of things, he isnt ready for a commited reletionship, and you shouldnt start a relationship your not 100% certain of. Remember there are plenty other guys out there, dont waste your tears on just one.
good luck
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Q: There's a guy in my lunch period and everyday I walk by him he looks at me and lately I've worked up the courage to look him in the eyes as I walk by as well. It's really quite sweet, we hold each other's gaze until I'm behind him at my table. I'm the one to usually break the gaze. I'm really diggin him, he's cute and he skateboards, he used to smoke weed but he quit for lacrosse and because he didn't like who he was when he was high. Anyways, I feel like his looking at me is his first step to try and like.. tell me something. I want to talk to him but I don't want to just sit at his lunch table and he like "HEY!" haha so what do I do? Do you think I should even try to talk to him? What do you think him looking at me all the time means and him not breaking the gaze first.. ever? Thanks!
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okay you say you dont want to make the first move, this is okay. drop other hints of your interest by adding a smile or wink as you walk past. if he continues to glaze at you gradually start say a soft "hey" as you walk past then continue to your table.
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Q: There is a boy. Like 90% of these questions start. He is in my gym class. He's adorably cute but unadorably shy haha. Anyway, like I said, I have gym with him but we are in different squads so basically, I never see him. So, my friend has been talking to him about me and she's been telling me the things he says. Some of the things that come to my mind right now are "I will most definitely be on facebook to talk to her" "I think she's funny, she's to shy to talk to me" or my friend told him today to talk to me when I come down the steps before gym (everyone chills outside the locker rooms before we change) I walked down the stairs, she called his name and he didn't come over but he said he would. So, she was in the gym with him while I was down for my music lesson and she said "why didn't you say anything to her? you said you would." and he said "I don't know" and she said "well, are you nervous?" and he said "..yea kinda" but he knows I like him so it would be so easy for him to talk to me because he knows I won't be a snob to him. So, why is he acting like this? Is he not diggin me? I thought from the things he was saying that he was kinda into me, am I wrong? Thanks.
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there is an even chance that he like you and doesn't. Best advice is to become friends with him, start off simple .. say hey to him and his mates when you pass them ect.
if he likes you let it come gradually,he needs time to get over his nerves.
good luck
Gabiie
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Hey im Gabiie, i am who i am and a don't plan on changing. i'll tell you what you NEED to hear, and give me honest opinion and suggestions.
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