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I need a man should I go to a gay bar to find him yes or no? (link)
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im sorry wait....you "need" to find a man?? why do you use the word need? Are you not ok enough with yourself that you need to be in a relationship so that you can focus on someone else all the time instead of yourself?
Understand this ok. If your ok with yourself, then your ok with being alone for a while without feeling like you NEED to rush into a relationship with someone. If your feeling this way then you should probably focus on working on yourself so that when you DO find a man, youll be putting the BEST version of yourself out there for them to see. By this i mean NOT bringing along the baggage and hurt from the last relationship and putting THOSE feelings or insecurities on them because thats not fair to someone whos a complete stranger. see what im getting at?
You want to present a HEALTHY, happy version of you. and you want THEM to do the same in return.....
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good luck
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