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So I'm a strong Christian and I'm 15 and going to be a sophomore. I have been a Christian for years. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and he is a Christian also (17 and senior). As Christians we don't believe in marriage before sex but we have already been to third base together even though we say we won't go further. Is that too far? Inside I feel like it is but I don't know how to slow down sexual but keep up in the relationship. What should I do? (link)
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Wait you mean you dont believe in having sex before marriage?? lol cause usually thats how this statement goes not the other way around.
If youve already been the third base then its a little late now for regrets. What you should do now is continue to make sure the relationship stays strong enough for the long term now that youve moved to that next level.
What you should ask yourself next is, Is this relationship strong enough to last forever or for the long term? is he as dedicated to the relationship. If his love for you hasnt changed and you dont see things running their course then you might just have a long term relationship here. If so you wanna nurture that.
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Yeah thanks so much I agree entirely
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