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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!
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hey, so there's this girl. AMAZING and i am so in love with her, and she has known for a long time. we have had drama and stuff about us, it all just seems like one messed up fairy tale waiting to come to an end. a few months ago, she told me that she liked me but wasn't sure if she would date me yet. i was fine with that answer and was determined to get her to love me the same, until the day she told me she chose another guy over me. that's when the drama started, but we've moved past that and she is still my great friend. Now she's thinking about breaking up with the other guy, but I'm not sure if it's for me. She said maybe one day soon her love for me will grow stronger, so I want to win her back. I even got into a fight with her bf tonight haha. anyways, i just need help on how to do it? i would prefer a girls advice please because i need a girls opinion on what they would do in this situation thanks and sorry that it's so long.
You sound like you are quite smitten with this girl. Maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. Let her know that you are in love with her and you would do anything for her. Even if it means waiting for her to love you back. Be confident but not cocky. Tell her what you love about her, why you fell for her in the first place. Ask her to give you a chance to prove to her that you are who she is meant to be with. If she doesnt feel the same way than maybe you should move on and find someone else who will love you as much as you love her. You deserve happiness and I pray you find it. If it doenst work out though go check out my column there is some nice advice on how to deal with heartbreak...
But i hope you end up together.
A little hint.. girls love flowers!
Good luck
(Rating: 5) thank you! this really helped me out a lot :)