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i need a girls advice on my complicated love drama :(
hey, so there's this girl. AMAZING and i am so in love with her, and she has known for a long time. we have had drama and stuff about us, it all just seems like one messed up fairy tale waiting to come to an end. a few months ago, she told me that she liked me but wasn't sure if she would date me yet. i was fine with that answer and was determined to get her to love me the same, until the day she told me she chose another guy over me. that's when the drama started, but we've moved past that and she is still my great friend. Now she's thinking about breaking up with the other guy, but I'm not sure if it's for me. She said maybe one day soon her love for me will grow stronger, so I want to win her back. I even got into a fight with her bf tonight haha. anyways, i just need help on how to do it? i would prefer a girls advice please because i need a girls opinion on what they would do in this situation thanks and sorry that it's so long.
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If you want to win her back. Talk to her as often as you can. Remember the lIttle things she tells you be there for her when she needs you chill with her as much as you can ask her to chill with you a lot and if you think she is giving you a shot at being her boyfriend take her on a date buy her stuff kudos to you if her and her bf get into a fight and you're there for her ;)
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You sound like you are quite smitten with this girl. Maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. Let her know that you are in love with her and you would do anything for her. Even if it means waiting for her to love you back. Be confident but not cocky. Tell her what you love about her, why you fell for her in the first place. Ask her to give you a chance to prove to her that you are who she is meant to be with. If she doesnt feel the same way than maybe you should move on and find someone else who will love you as much as you love her. You deserve happiness and I pray you find it. If it doenst work out though go check out my column there is some nice advice on how to deal with heartbreak...
But i hope you end up together.
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Good luck
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Hey! So I am a girl (as requested) and I think it's really cute that you're trying to win her back, but maybe fighting with her bf isn't the best way to go about it (lol). If I were you, I would wait and see whether she ends the relationship with this other guy or not. If she does then great, if she doesn't then not so great. If she doesn't chose to end the relationship then just let it be, I know how cliché this sounds- but if you love her as much as you claim you do, then you'll let her do what she wants to do- rather than trying to force her to be in a relationship with you. It sounds to me like she does love you back, but maybe she's scared of these feelings and started dating this other guy as a distraction, but I don't know as I'm not a mind reader. But if she does break it off with this other guy then don't jump straight into asking her out agin (unless she wants to date you straight away) as you don't want to be jumping relationships. Just ease back a little, and if it will be it will be, you can still be good friends and reminder her that your feelings haven't changed every so often, and see how it goes. I hope you two get together, and I hope this helped! :)
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