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Hi there,boy Im in hot water.
This guy I like likes looking at other women.We followed each other on Instagram.And every time I log in,it shows me what people I follow liked pictures,and how many. Well,about 90% of his posts are all sexy and suggestive photos,I was sick of seeing crap! Especially when he has me to stare at.I have brought this up many times.So I told him I wasnt sending him anymore photos to his phone.
I said ''you get sexy photos for free,and see them all the time why should I bother? Just the last straw''
And he responded ''Oh my god...you're right.This is the last straw''
And then I said''Dont be upset'' And sent some other messages
And he said ''I'm not talking to you right now. Stop blowing up my phone''
He unfollowed and blocked me on his Instagram.
So,how bad is this? Os he leaving me? Am I ever going to hear from him again? Or did I jut blow it? Anything? Is there anything I can do?
Or is it a done deal? I said I was sorry. And I am.I love him very much.
So,is it over,and does he need his space? (link)
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My first question to you is why would you say sorry for standing up for how you feel when this guy is looking at other women and "gets sexy pics for free"??
i hear nothing there that says "i need to say im sorry"
Secondly, if he blocked you and unfriended you or whatever then YEAH i'd say its a done deal. He doesnt want anything else to do with you and it sounds like by the way you described him, you dont really need to have anything to do with him either. He sounds like a ladies man and your just one more in the pile of girls he gets pics from. Do you really wanna be just another one of those unspecial girls?? probly not. You should have a guy that worships only YOU and doesnt WANT pictures of anyone else.
If anything you come off as needy to him because you first stated how you felt, then once you realized he was upset you took seemed to almost take it back by saying "dont be upset". Something tells me this guys feels like he has you on your knees for him emotionally and thats not where you should be OK with being at.
its better you broke it off with him you deserve better then that. ; )
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