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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!
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Ok, so this question could be triggering I don't know so sorry if it is. I am an outpatient recovering from anorexia bulimia, depression and mild OCD , (yeah I know pretty messed up). my friend from school is having a pool party and has invited lots of people including the girl that effectively sent me to hospital, she bullied me constantly online and at school and no one knew.(the girl, not my friend) I still haven't told people about my problems with her girl because I know they won't believe me. Anyway I really want to go and I have set it as one of my short term goals to achieve but I am worried about this girl being mean to me, also I will be in swim wear so people will defiantly notice how fat I am now I'm out of hospital and also all the scars on my body due to self harm, I am just scared she will bring it up infront of people and I don't know what to do!?
First let me say, you are not fat! You are a beautiful strong young woman. All through your life there will be someone saying something about you.. I will let you in on a little secret.. She is just jealous. My advice to you is if this girl seriously bothers you then talk to your other friend about it. Let your friend know that if she starts saying mean things to you then you will leave and you will not come over when she is there because you are more mature than that. And as for the scars, wear them with pride... you know why? Because thats all they are, scars, as in the past. Something you battled and have overcome. And if she says something to you just tell her what you say hurts me and because of your harmful words I use to harm myself but then I realized you are not worth it and I am not going to let you bother me anymore. Tell her to please act mature and try to get along with eachother or at least be mature and do not talk to me unless you are going to be civil. You deserve better than that. If you ever need to talk or need advice you can come to me. I have scars too I know where you are coming from. and I know what incredible strength it takes to overcome that painful past.
(Rating: 5) Thanks It makes me feel so much stronger reading that, you have no idea how much it helps so thank you, I will try to be strong and stand up to my fears,