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Hello everyone, I'm 18/F and my bf and I have been dating for two years now. When we began dating, he had told me about girls who also likes him. There are quite a few and I just can't stop thinking about this particular girl he told me. She liked him and I think she still does but he didn't like her. My bf and I live in the same state while she live in another state. I completely have no idea what's about her that I can't stop thinking about her one day ending up with my bf. of all the girls he told me that like him, why her? What can I do to stop thinking about her ending up with my bf? (link)
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hmmm well theres no easy way to say this. but you cant be insecure about it. if you know and trust that he loves you then theres nothing to fear right?
he says he doesnt like her back so whats the problem? it seems a bit unproductive to spend your time thinking about someone who doesnt really know you and who your man tells you he doesnt like anyway.
Based on what youve said here, it sounds like you might be a bit untrusting of your man and insecure that some of girl will \"take him\" somehow. your bf isnt a piece of property. YOU own his heart from what the current situation is because hes with YOU and not her.
good luck sweetie. ; )
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Thank you so much for all of that awesome advice. You really opened my eyes and I am taking your thoughts into consideration. Now I have a pretty clear reason to why I think that way.
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