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First lets just call her..Su. So in 6th grade Su left the school im in and she wasnt here for 7th grade, she came back in 8th grade and stuff changed for the first week. We flirted alot and chatted alot on facebook... i was planning on asking her out the following day, but another guy was faster then me and she said yes to him. I knew he was a jerk but never told her just to not get her angry at me, after a while she broke up with him, and during the time she was going out with him she friendzoned me. I accepted it at first but at the beginning of the school year after christmas i started to have feelings about her, she hugs me sometimes, rarely gives me a kiss on the cheek. I dont know what to do, i always felt like she was the one for me but now its starting to fade and i get angry about it...what should i do???


Btw i dont want any comments that say 'dont worry youre young time will pass and you will get another chance' cause i know all of that but i need help with this. (link)
I'd say go take the chance. I'd start with hanging out more often, talking more and see how she is with you and if she shows any other signs that could mean she could be interested.
If she does, then ask her to the movies or bowling or something fun. If you guys hit it off then ask her out.
If she doesn't feel the same way, then you can't really do anything else. I mean you can't make someone want to be with you. So at that point you'll just have to accept that it's not going to happen and then move on.


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thanks :). Do you think i should ask her to slow dance with me at a Valentines dance?




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