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Ok, so recently, on a popular site, (not facebook, twitter, or instagram) I ended up in a very long and not yet ending comment conversation with another user (male). Somehow I believe I may have developed a... crush... on him. The only problem is, I have absolutely zero idea how old he is, but it hasn't come up yet because I have my age displayed on my profile but he does not. Looking at his profile, he seems older than 13 but younger than 30. I tend to think about him a lot, and we talk about twice a day. I'm just so fearful that I'll eventually find out he's 27....
I know how dangerous the internet is, but he just seems so... great. He writes so intelectually, but he uses words like 'awesome'. I'm just so flustered. What should I do about this? Thank you. (link)
I think you should just let it be a crush and not pursue it at all.
I mean you already know how dangerous the internet is so you really don't want to put yourself in that position.
Besides that, if he is who he says he is and all that, if he's 18 years old, he could end up in jail by dating you. I know that's jumping a little far ahead but that's where you're heading if you do something about your feelings and it would just end badly for you.

You should just leave it alone and try meeting boys your age for now.


Rating: 5
You're right. (I asked, and he said he's 14, but you're right.) thanks




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