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Hi, I'm 13 (obviously a girl) I have had vaginal discharge for almost a year now. I have had pubic hair for 3 years. No armpit hair. I have a lot of mood swings, like one second I think that I look so great and the next I'm crying about how every one looks better than me (I'm in a good mood right now). I have breasts but just but if I wear a big shirt I look flat. I have also had pimples/oily skin for 4 years. I have had them for 2 years. I often get cramps were I'm pretty sure my internal girly stuff is. My mom isn't really a help cause when I say that I have gas. I know I shouldn't be this concerned but all of my friends have periods and boobs just feel really out of place. I'm afraid I'll never get it. I just want it so I can stop worrying that I'll never get it. I really don't want to get it when I'm in high school cause that will be way too embarrassing. I know that people will always say just wait its not as great as you think, but I only want it to stop worrying. Is there any way I can make it come faster?

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You're just going through puberty. That's why you have pubic hair, vaginal discharge, growing breasts, acne, cramps, mood swings ect. Those are all just things you get when you go through puberty, the period is also just one of those things and you'll eventually get it.
You can't make your period come faster. It's just natural stuff.
Most girls get it during the time their mom had first gotten it but then a lot of other things factor into it. Stress can cause it to be delayed even longer, so you're really not helping with stressing out over this.
It's honestly, not great at all. I mean you're going to have this happen to you every month until you are about 40-50..so there's no rush.
And periods don't make your breasts grow.
All your period does is get rid of the lining inside your uterus because there is no baby there.

Honestly, if you really are concerned, just go see a doctor.
I do have a friend who doesn't get her period. She is taking medicine every month to make her period come. But you're still super young and I know girl who didn't get their period till they were 17.

Your period just gets rid of the lining inside of your uterus. I don't know why you want it so bad. It won't give you boobs or anything. It'll just give you worse cramps, fatigue, headaches, ect.

So don't stress out about it, it'll come when your body is ready. If you're concerned, go see a doctor.


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