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What should I do?

I love this girl so much, I just don't know how to tell her. I don't know if she feels the same way...We're best friends and have been for a long while, but sometimes she looks at me, says things, or does things that send me mixed signals. There's just something there and I don't know what it is. I'm so sad because I'm so far away from her...

All I know is she's the only person on this Earth I'd do anything for. It's not the piddly,"Aw your so cute, I love you babe," type of love. It's the, "I will still love you when you're old and fat. I'll still love you when you hate me. There's not a damn thing you can do to make me stop it. I'd give my life for you in a heartbeat and I don't know what I'd do if I ever lost you, and if I ever had children, I'd only have them with you," type of love. I just wish I could tell her. It's just so hard. Help me, please? I've thought about bringing it up, but I don't want to ruin what I already have. (link)
Just tell her how you feel.

Just one piece of advice though, don't go on telling professing your love on how you'd love her forever and want to have children with her and such. That could possibly throw her off and scare her a bit, especially if she has no idea that you're even interested in her.

So just tell her you have feelings for her and if she has the same feelings, then great. If she doesn't, you'll have to move on.


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I know, I'm just saying that's how I feel.




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