I've dealt with a lot of stuff. Suicide, abuse, and that girl that's only like 13 and not a virgin. And tons more. I really enjoy getting questions from people, but if you just want to talk for no or any reason, or want a more personal answer, I like it even better when people e-mail me. I'm cool with any topic. I get on my email/ site at least once a week.
P.S: sorry for what looks like bad spelling/ grammar, but really I just have a realllly bad touchscreen. sorry!
E-mail: divergirl123_1@aol.com
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OK! I am a 14 year old girl and a Freshman. There is this guy I am close friends with that I finally admitted to myself that i like him he is a 17 year old M/Junior(I have known him for a year and I like him for his personality/ he just happens tp be cute ;D) In your answers please DON'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT AGE! I am VERY mature for my age, and we both have A LOT in common. But so i ran into him at a music store we both know about and HE broke the touch barrier TWICE by hugging me for the first time. I haven't seen him since then (that was middle july) but we text everyday which is very nice. I will see him soon however (We have a Band fundraiser and Band Camp coming up. BTW both of us have never been in a relationship before) and here's the problem. I really really want him to kiss me, Or at least hug me. It's kind of freaking me out because i have never had this 'wanting' like this before. (I know it is suspected that Older guys go for younger girls for easy sex but i know he wouldn't. He is one of those shy guys that haven't dated yet) SO THE QUESTION: How can I hint for a kiss from a shy guy?? I can do hugs easily. Thank you any advice is appreciated :) (link)
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You two sound like you do have a lot in common! And about the age, it is fine for any highschooler to go out with any other age highschooler. (I think in highschool and above age differences under fives years don't really matter, it's more like a middle-school rule.).And since he broke the touch barrier, I bet it's up to you to beak the personal barrier. Maybe wait until a party, or New Years would be the absolute best time, but it's kind of far away.. Ask around. Do his friends say he likes you? And I don't think he's just using you, seeing as how far back you two are, and that most guys just do it then go. Maybe on a good day, like one that means something to both of you, invite him to the movies, and when you're saying goodbye, hug and give a quick kiss on the cheek.(Then again, I don't know what he's really 'into', so maybe you could give it your own little twist? --good luck-- Hope I helped.
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