I've dealt with a lot of stuff. Suicide, abuse, and that girl that's only like 13 and not a virgin. And tons more. I really enjoy getting questions from people, but if you just want to talk for no or any reason, or want a more personal answer, I like it even better when people e-mail me. I'm cool with any topic. I get on my email/ site at least once a week.
P.S: sorry for what looks like bad spelling/ grammar, but really I just have a realllly bad touchscreen. sorry!
E-mail: divergirl123_1@aol.com
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Age: 14
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Soo...im 13, and my boyfriend is 14. We have been dating.for 5 months, and he wants to now become 'sexually active'. I do too its just that i know its not right. And its not him...its my body. I would love to become active with him...but, idk what to do during it. Help?!?? (link)
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Don't. Just Don't. think of it this way, you're in your late 20s, you're on your honeymoon, then your husband says, 'did I just take your virginity?', and you say no! You may not think of it, but that kind of thing is very downgrading.
also, you're only 13!! ask him if he's had sex yet. see what he says. whether he says yes or no, it's still bad. if he says yes, it means that he has told other girls before that he wants to be with them forever and/ or loves them and has manipulated them!! if he says no, just tell him it's wrong.
But, should you be a complete idiot/ slut and ignore my advice and anyone's who says don't do it and throw your life away, please, use a condom.
I am 13, too, so I know what you're doing. you'll regret it.
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thank you! that makes SO much sense!
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