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Female, Just Turned 13.

Hi! So... Me and my BFF met in the beginning of the school year (August) - And she has changed my life.

However... Our other friend told me she was moving. Long story short: She kept it from me! She said she wanted me to FIND OUT! ;( Ok so she moved before Winter break..

Winter break ended and she wasn't here all week. She texted me and told me the news.. Ever since, I couldn't stop crying. Seriously! We were even going to go to Disney World in May.. I'm so depressed. I can barely eat or sleep. What do I do? She changed my life and she meant so much to me ;(. Everytime I think of the good memories or the day we met, I start to cry. She was the bestest friend I ever had!

I'm very sorry to hear about you losing your friend. I know that can be a heartbreaking situation. It seems a little strange to me that she would keep that from you, though, but maybe she was upset about it as well and that was her way of handling it.

If you need to cry then cry. There's nothing wrong with that. You have to handle the loss of the relationship in whatever way works best for you. Try to stay in touch with her, and always remember the memories you have together, but don't be afraid to make new friends and have fun. I know it's hard right now but thinks will get easier in time.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. This really helped :)


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