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Hi, I'm 14/f. (My birthday was yesterday!!!)
Which one of these options is the healthiest for a girl to take? I know to have sex at all is bad.
1: Not doing anything sexual at all, not even masturbating until youre married
2: Only masterbating until youre married
3: A mixture of masterbating and having sex with someone all your life
Any opinions will be appreciated. Thanks to all who answer (or comment) !!! (link)
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I believe that masturbation and sex are healthy once your reach a certain age. Masturbation is fine but sex is something you need to be a little bit more mature to be able to handle, it's also dangerous if protection isn't used. I've had a few sexual partners and I'm not married, I think it's a healthy thing, when you are growing up you need to learn these things, some religions and some people in general believe sex is something to be saved for marriage. You are fourteen however, Masturbating at your age is very normal actually, however if you plan to have sex before marriage I think you should wait a few more years. I lost my virginity at your age and I was not emotionally ready and it really messed me up. So make sure whatever you decide it is something you are comfortable with. You may not be comfortable with it now, but chances are as you mature you will change your mind. Best of luck.
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I know what you're saying, I will NOT have sex with ANYONE before I'm married, I'm not doing that to myself emotionally like you said happened to you and won't give in to peer pressure. I'm sorry if it sounds rude, but I know that it's true. But do keep in mind I was just asking to make sure, to see which one was healthiest.
Thank you for answering and I'm sorry it took this long for you to hear back.
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