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General question...
We fought a lot, we werent even "together" but couldve... anyway, we were both mad at each other, now he doesnt e mail... he didnt reply..
i feel i missed who i thought he was...
do guys mean what they say when they say they dont care, do they really NOT care? or like girls, do they still think of what couldve happened, what is she thinking...
why do girls think a LOT about situations, and guys seem to dont care as much?
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There are two possibilities; either he is pretending not to care because he doesn't want to reveal his true emotions about the matter, or he really doesn't care. But either way, the result is essentially the same.

It's not that guys don't think as much about "situations" (and I can only assume that I know what you mean by that!). It's just that they don't talk about it as much, and certainly not with someone who they're mad at.

Whatever it is, he won't talk with you about it until he's ready. If he genuinely doesn't care, that will be never. Either way, it's best for you to let it go.


Rating: 5
thank you so much, I am getting there, just kinda expecting he would be ready.. but if not, then let it be.... guys and girls sure are different!! I really appreciate it!!!




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