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i have a self esteem ,self image problem .i know it effects everyone and everthing in my life but do not know how to fix it.i take evrything said the wrong way and respond the wrong way. i dont trust anyone.i gained weight because someone called me a skinny bitch a few times and over heard a women tell another that they should watch their husbands around me.now 10 years later i am 50 lbs over weight,have now friends,no job,no life.i went to see a counciler and she basically said until i want to change she cant help me, somehow i think that was what i was paying her for?maybe i am just ment to be this sad pitiful person that i am
Aw, I feel for you! Seriously, I've felt down about myself many times before.
What helps me is the quote "attitude is everything." I pride myself in handling things with grace. I rarely ever find myself stressed because I've learned to be optimistic.
You are going to have to change your opinion about yourself to a more positive and realistic one. Realistically, no one is hopeless. If you are alive, you have the ability to change what could be considered "a hopeless state". When you feel better about yourself, you won't be concerned with outside opinions. Wishing you the best!
(Rating: 3) do you think audio tapes on learning positiveness can help and do you have a non religious recomendation