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My fiance will be leaving for Navy bootcamp in a little over a month. By the time he leaves we'll be married. But all I think about is how much I'm going to miss him. I know I should think about spending as much time as possible together but I'm a planner type of person. It gets to a point where I'm just really depressed. I don't know if you call it depression or not but he's not even gone yet and I'm already freaking out about it. I just want to know what I can do to fix this. I don't want to have to take any anti-depression pills so that's out of the question. I just don't know what to do. Thanks! (link)
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well if you think about it... he's doing a VERY good thing! and yeah your going to worry about your husband and stuff but don't drive yourself crazy because if you do, your never going to be happy, all your going to be doing is worrying. at least not worry now that he's here and when he does leave, think positive about everything! pray at night! and i know it's going to be hard but try not to think about it, go out with friends, have a party, shop, go to the pool, go on a little vacation or something.
i know it's going to be hard but you cant do it!
good luck and i hope i helped!(:
if you have any questions askk!
melisssa.!(:
and before he leaves maybe go to dinner or maybe you to go on a little vacation... but don't do all of this becuase you think somethings going to happen to him, do it because you want to!(:
i hope everything goes well for you and your husband! and you don't need depression pills, it's all in your head!
my step mom always used to say "when you get up on the morning and think im going to have a good day today, then you will. but if you say im going to have a horrible day, you will." i've tried thinking both ways and they work haha!"
think about the positive side.
if there is a cup half of water... do you think of the glass half full, or half empty.?
melissa!(:
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thanks so much! your advice was great!
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