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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!
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I am a 16 year old female. I am going to be a senior in high school. When I was back in jr high, I had a favorite teacher and it was quite evident that I was his favorite student. We were so close, he was like a second dad to me, how I saw it anyway. Other students were jealous that they didn't get the treatment from him that I did, so badly that the only thing they could come up with is that we were "together". Honestly, from an outsider looking it, it would look as if we were dating. But he would have no intention of dating a 7/8/9 th grader which was what I was in jr high. I am now in sr high and we still stay in contact, he comes to my school to watch over some teachers and we'll steal quick glances at each other, he'll tell me he likes when I visit him during the school year on my walks home, I'm the only student that during my years of having him and now not having him that is able to call him by his first name, he asks me for my opinions on his teaching lessons (about what would interest the kids because I had him and he knows that I would be honest if his lessons were boring), he asks me about my personal life and he talks to me about his which is something he never does with other students, the first time I visited him was after Christmas break with a friend of mine and she asked if he liked his late Christmas present and he said "I love my fantastic Christmas present" and she said after we left that he hadn't looked that happy in a long time.
--what do you think about us? more than just aquaintences?
now, the main reason for asking my question, I came back from Creation Festival this week and I was telling my brother about a singer there that he would like so I went up to my brother and was telling him "hey, there was this guy there named" and before I could tell my brother the guy's name, his girlfriend cut me off and said "(teacher's name), did you have to hide to be together?" I was speechless, I didn't tell my brother anything about my teacher ever. So how did his girlfriend even know? She didn't even go to my jr high, so how did she even know about the teacher, let alone what all of the kids thought about us?
Please help me out. I'm wondering if he like, called for a summer music program or something while I was away. Are you like everyone else and think we are together? How would she know about him?
Thanks.
She probably heard it through a rumor things pass quickly.... it sounds to me like the two of you are just good friends it is okay to have a friend but you must be careful with it... if he is your teacher this means that he is over 18 and you are only 16... if people think there is something going on they could tell the wrong person and your teacher friend can get in trouble... you dont want that to happen... so I suggest never meeting up alone or outside of school... once you graduate honsetly you can do what ever you want but til then be careful good luck and best wishes
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, you are amazing.