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I'm a 32/female. I work as a server and worked til midnight on Thursday. I drank alot of caffeine while working so I thought I would stop on the way home and get a drink and order some food for my boyfriend who i live with. I ended up drinking 3 beers and got some wings for him and talked to this girl who said she had just moved here from LA and had no girl friends here. When i got home it was almost 2:00 in the morning and when I walked in the cushions were gone off the couch, the tv was gone, computer was gone, mattress gone. My phone had been dead so i put it on the charger and called my boyfriend. When he answered he called me a whore and said i had been out whoring around. I said first of all dont ever call me a whore, and that i had gotten him some food and had money for him as he had said he was broke before. He called me a liar and this made me very angry. I have never cheated on him. I have since been able to get him to bring back the tv and computer but have been sleeping on the box spring with no mattress and thinking what should I do? I do love him very much so this has really hurt me. None of my friends or family like him which makes me feel even more sorry for him. I guess I will move out the first of May. He will not take my calls except once to tell me he loved me and hated this sitution yesterday morning. What should I do? ANY ADVICE?!!!
I'm curious...why does your family dislike him? He must have acted immaturely like this before. I can't understand why a grown individual would act in such a way. This leads me to believe that he has a lot of growing up to do. Do you intend to be the one to "raise" him?
-Thanks for the feedback! You are very strong and wise for being so willing to walk away from this situation when most people would stoop to his level. I admire your courage and wish you luck!
(Rating: 5) Exactly, it is not the first time, just finally getting fed up. He is 37 years old and yes i feel that ive been raising him this year and a half. Thank you for the feedback, you make a good point. It just sucks that I just talked to him again and he acted like he was the victim here. So he has learned nothing. Hes staying with his mom maybe she will teach him some more manners while he is over there. Im moving out of state, he will never see me again!