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Q: I am an 18 year old female who is a virgin. If I give a guy oral sex am I still a virgin?
Please don't perform oral sex on a guy who is trying to convince you to do so by saying you will still be a virgin. Yes, you will still be a virgin. But if you have to talk about this...maybe you're not ready? Good luck and be safe!


Thank you for trying but read the last answer and I believe it: No, you will no longer be a virgin.

Virginity have nothing to do with what is between your legs.

When you are a virgin, male or female, it means that you have NO emotional baggage from sexual encounters, and you have NEVER done anything that could give you an STD.

If you have ever given oral, you may have an STD because of it. Therefore, how does it look when you tell someone you are a virgin, then give them a sexually transmitted disease?

See the point?

If virginity had to do with your hymen, then no guy could EVER be a virgin, and a girl doing gymnastics (or anything else that might break her hymen) would automatically not be a virgin.

This is the only way virginity means anything: Keeping yourself completely clean, emotionally and disease-wise, for the person you want to give your virginity to.

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