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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."
I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.
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19/f i've been best friends with this girl for 4 years. Ever since she became super religious she would try to get me to go to church with her. And it worked for a while but then i realized that i didn't want to convert to Christianity. We have this other friend who my friend thinks is controlling , but i think she got that from her. Like Whenever my friend of four years wants to hangout she never wants to come over. See we're on winter break and she goes to college away from home. and i am always the one going to her house. We hangout with other people and she's rude to them to. but when we were working out she commented on how bad my shoes were like a million times. i was wearing vans canvas slip ons. then after wards we were buying drinks at the cafe and she wanted me to buy hers and i was like i am paying separate and she made a big deal, but i wouldn't buy it for her because she wouldn't shut up about what i was wearing. but later on we were talking and she was being nice and asking what kind of shoes i wanted from the store to workout in. but before Whenever i went to her house and im just like wtf why are you so rude? but anyways she asked me if i wanted her to do my eyebrows. and im stupid and i let her do it. and then she goes and messes up my eyebrows. i am really sick of her. should i stop being friends with her completely? and find new friends, or should i just hangout with her less?
It sounds to me like you have already made up your mind about this girl. You obviously don't like her. Just dont talk to her as much as you do. If I were you I wouldn't cut her off completely if you still enjoy her company. Which you must somewhat if you still put up with this. Instead of hanging out every weekend, make it every other weekend. Eventually, you'll drift apart. It's never good to have enemies.
(Rating: 5) thanks she asked me to hangout today and i said i couldn't and then on facebook she asked me to hang out with her tomorrow, because she's leaving on Friday morning, and i said sorry i can't because i am busy. so yeah i am just going to stop hanging out with her because i am never happy or myself when i am around her, and i know i can't change her, but at the same time i am not letting her control me anymore.