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I cheated on my boyfriend in the summer twice with my ex. Because he made me feel so insecure about our relationship. He never gave me a lot of attention, he never called me. He didn't text me very fast. My ex gave me a lot of attention and made me feel loved. And my boyfriend never gets jealous about other guys except my ex because we went out for 2 years. Also I get really jealous if my boyfriend talks to other girls or hangs out with them. My ex kept coming back to me even when I was going out with him. I keep cheating on my boyfriend with him though. Now I stopped. I feel guilty about it because I think my boyfriend has never cheated on me. I just don't trust him. Because he talks to a lot of girls and never gives me a lot of attention. All he does is buy me gifts and its always jewlery. But i feel guilty that I cheated. My best friend told me he deserved it. My boyfriend still doesnt know i cheated on him. On our anniversary last month my ex texted me. And my boyfriend responded to his text. And my ex's answer was "were more than just friends" and he got so mad. And his mom asked me if I was being unfaithful and I said no and lied. What should i do? Ive never cheated on a guy EVER. I've been cheated on before. Guys have left me for other people. How can I deal with this relationship? I need help from someone :(

Before I advice you on anything, let me just say that your friend is wrong. No one ever deserves to be cheated on...period. In your situation, it seems like you just dont like you boyfriend. You are probably still with him because you either dont want to hurt him or you dont want to be alone. Which is okay. Still, if you cheat on someone, it is because you really dont want to be with that person. So break up with him, and see what else is out there. Maybe reunite with your ex?

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(Rating: 5) I don't have any feelings for my ex anymore. I just enjoyed that he cared about me more but thanks for the advice

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