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Hey, I'm Jen. I basically get on here when I'm really bored and I promise to be honest when answering your questions. :)

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So there is this boy and I am not going to get much but he did like me at one point and I dont know if he does anymore so I am trying to move on but it is hard!!! and it would be easier but I lost my best friend last year because lets just say she went bad. She knew how to make her way around guys and she brought out the flirty side of me, now since I have lost her I am having the hardest time doing this on my own! I really need help! The guys I try to text including the one I don't know if he likes me anymore, when I text them I feel like I mess up and say stuff wrong. Liek the other night night, I text one of my ex boyfriends because I am starting to like him again so I figured I would try, and I tried to bring up something from the past and he replied something that made me feel stupid so now I think he thinks I am stupid and he hasnt acted like we are friends since then...! I really need help on getting my own self back and getting a boyfriend, I really need one and want one to get my life back together! Please help !---ThAnKs(:----!

Sounds to me like you need a confidence booster. It was not your best friend that the guy liked, it was YOU. So screw that friend, you'll find another. And as for the guys, guys love nothing more but confidence. Flirt in the way that makes you comfortably, and do not try to be something you are not. You'll get over this boy eventually, you are just dwelling in the past.

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(Rating: 5) I never really thought about it that way it was me he liked and not the friend(: Thank you that really helped I guess it was justg becuase she was so outspokenly flirty and things that made me not relize that so thank you.!
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