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Hi, about me :
1. 5'3
2. 18 at the moment
3. YANKEES!!! ALL THE WAY
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I am a 18 yr old f. Several answers would be appreciated. I have met a guy who I relate to in so many ways. I have never felt so comfortable around any other guy before; it feels as if I have known him for years. He is 35. My heart tells me it is so right, but my head tells me he might be too old. Usually I would think 10 years is a good gap to date someone, but my parents are 15 years apart... What do you think? I am very mature and I would never do anything that I'd think to be a stupid decision. Never drank or did drugs in my life and don't plan to. He has never done this either. Thanks in advance!
I am the same as you, basically. I never drank or did drugs (never plan to either).
I'm 18, and I'm with a 37 year old.
I'm very mature for my age, aside from what people may think regarding this relationship.
My parents are 22 years apart.
My head says no, my heart says yes.
I've been in this relationship for 8 months (since I turned 18)
After a while, your head says yes too. I would NEVER recommend anyone to choose to be with someone much older, just because there are always consequences that come with this.
I personally worry if my dad (who is 75, mom is 53) will be around. Luckily, he's in good health. I think about my relationship and I realize that it is worth it to me. But I can't speak for you, or tell you what's best, because this topic is controversial, and it basically depends on personal opinion. If you feel you can handle this situation, regardless of what people will think and say (and you will be ridiculed, I am all the time), then make your decision.
You have to remember, it's neither my decision nor the people who commented below.
You have to make the decision and do what makes you happy the most.
It's not easy, but if it's meant to be, it will be.
Hope I helped.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your answer. I do see how there could be a problem, but based on what you said.. I can actually hear a good side now too :)