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Im a 22 year old female..
my question has to do with the question i asked before.. im sorry but im just confused and i dont know who else to ask for advice. so im getting to know a 22 yr. old male who recently got out of a long term relationship due to his ex cheated on him.& he has 3 kids with her. so i took the advice of getting to know him not minding he has kids, cause i started to have feelings for him. he just today told me he had to tell me something that he couldnt text me or call me anymore. because something happen and he had to be there for his family. but that he didnt want me to take it as if he is a bad person. he said he enjoyed the time we spent together and that hopefully we can see each other soon so he can explain everything to me, but for now he had to say bye. i was so confuse & still am. i told him i understand he has to be there for his family. but i dont get it. he is not the type that would try & hurt me intentionally. but i dont know what to think. a few days ago when i was with him. his ex called him. & i could hear her sort of clearly through the phone. she called him "baby" and ask him where he was & with who, he told her so i think it bother her. but he didnt want to talk to her then and told her it wasnt the moment so he hanged up but she kept on calling him. he apologized. and told me had to answer cause his son is sick. but he doesnt like talking much about his ex or that situation in particular.i dont know if to think this has something to do with what happened today. i made up my mind & decided to not look foward to the day he calls me back & "explains everything to me" cause i fear it will never come. im sorry for the very long long story/question. do you guys think i should just forget about him?

Great advice LiLReBeL6907! Everything she said is exactly right.

Also, that bull crap about, "oh I can't explain it now I need to be there for my family" is ridiculous. You were dating him and damn well deserved an explanation to why he couldn't call you or text you anymore. Just because he has a child and a 'baby mama' doesn't mean you should get the crap end of the stick. That little situation in its self should say a lot. This guy has a lot of issues that he needs to work out....I wouldn't waste my time.

Good luck!

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(Rating: 4) i agree i need an explanation.. but i wasnt dating him.. we were just getting to each other..thank you anyways for your advice :)


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