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Established in 2005, and five years later I still absolutely love giving advice to anyone and everyone. I'm an eighteen-year-old female living in New York state who is an aspiring web designer. Some questions are easier for me to answer than others, but I try to answer each question that catches my eye thoroughly and honestly based on the experiences of myself and people I know. I would be thrilled to answer any question that enters my inbox, so don't hesitate to ask. Thanks for reading.

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hi i have been friends with this guy for about 2-3 years and he has liked me and i knew it... but that was about a couple of years ago... and i thought he went off me i have never reall as in REALLY loved him... but he went out with one of my sorta ish friend but she is not really my friend and they never worked out like at all!!

now he says he likes me... and idk if i feel the same... but he makes me feel good about myself and has always been there for me.. and we are really friends...
should i give him a chance...
or should i wait....
or should i stay friends ?

please help me please i really need some advise
thanks

A relationship has to be solid on both ends, and since you're not really sure what you want, it's probably not a good idea to jump into a relationship with him. Don't date him just because he likes you and wants to be with you - you have to truly want to be with him too if you want to have a real relationship.

I suggest that you tell him that you see him as "just a friend," but if you are in fact attracted to him and are beginning to consider the idea of him being more than a friend to you, take things slow and maybe try hanging out together alone (or if you already hang out alone, you could try going on a date.) Make sure you don't lead him on though, because that could put a lot of tension on your friendship - and this sounds like a good friend that you don't want to lose. Good luck!

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(Rating: 5) ur right i dont really like him like that so i think we will just stay m8s thx


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