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19/F. This is the third time this week I'm crying myself to sleep :/
If it weren't for work or school...I'd have nothing to do! I just feel really sad. I have some friends and they're all nice people, but none of them "get me". I just don't feel a connection with any of them.
I'm a friendly person and I'm not socially awkward (promise). However, I'm not a super social person. I'd much rather hang around with a few people I already know then continuously meet random people. What can I do to change my situation?
I am in the same situation as you. 18 female and all I do is work and school. I have a few friends but I know what you mean when you say that you don't connect with them. I don't think that it's your fault. I don't know about you, but I live a pretty sheltered life and I've been stuck with the same class since Kindergarten, and I feel like they are all the same. But I want to tell you that there ARE people in the world that are different. I recently met some; so I KNOW that you will. There's nothing wrong with not being a super social person. I think you are just looking for long lasting meaningful friendships with people that you have a connection with, and how could you be expected to want anything less? That's what friendship is all about. Don't stress about it because true friends will come with time, and the best friends are the ones that aren't forced; they just pop up out of nowhere. I suggest that you try and talk to people that share your interests - like maybe your college major. I definitely don't think that this is your fault though. Good luck and just don't forget that there are other people like you !:)
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thank you! this was just what I needed to hear! I'm super hopeful, now! :)
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