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Hi, about me :
1. 5'3
2. 18 at the moment
3. YANKEES!!! ALL THE WAY
I DONT KNOW YOU so i give suggestions
I HOPE YOU RESPECT THAT
If you don't like my advice then don't ask! simple. don't rate bad because i tell you something that you don't wanna hear, i couldn't care less what you rate me, it's not affecting my life at all...
I'll tell it like it is.
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My boyfriend says we have a normal relationship. I try to tell him it's not. He expects me to tell him everyone I pass in the hall way at work, what they say and send him pictures. If they come in my office he says they only made an excuse to come and see me that things should be controlled differently and men should not be able to just walk in my office. He takes these things out on me as well. Last Friday my boss called me in his office because he was about to leave for the day. When the boyfriend called I wasn't at my desk. he called and left vmails that were rude and ugly and when i called him back and explained he Said "you were in the office w/ 2 men?" "What else happened" Would you feel as if he is suggesting that something un professional could have happened by saying something like that? I'm at wits end and he seems to think he is doing no wrong. He says he has the right to know who I talk to and what is said and where I am and thinks if I have a problem w/ it then I have something to hide.
Your boyfriend does not trust you.
It's very sad. And you're right, he is controlling. He's making you send him pictures and tell him every moment of your life...I'm sorry but that's not the way to have a relationship. If you don't fix it, sooner or later it's going to have horrible results. He's already placed ideas in his mind that you are meeting wtih different men, and the next step is he's going to come up with new scenarios about you and these men.
You are not at fault, but if you let it continue, you are. This is not the type of relationship you want to be in. It is important to have trust, and he doesn't seem to have that.
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much! I am leaving him.