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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle

"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."

I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.

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thanks for your advice. ive been told that before but its just hard. and to tell you the truth since ive never had a boyfriend (...or given the guys a chance) im a liiiiittle bit scared.) i know it gets easier later when you actually are used to haveing a boyfriend but i dont want to wait. im scared but anxious and these 2 things do not mix well with me. it really sucks and then i get depressed because my friends are all lovey dovey with their boyfriends. makes me envy that kinda connection they have. ahhh i hate my liiiife! haha just kidding, but it does get a little bit depressing sometimes.

Once again, I really know exactly how you feel. I remember some of my friends had boyfriends and I was so jealous, I wanted a boy to look at me like the way they looked at them. I had so many expectations. I thought they should be like those really romantic guys in movies. I remember getting kind of sad too. I distance understand why I couldn't find this perfect guy. I always thought "oh I know I bet the perfect guy will be in a coffee shop and I'll know he's the one" haha. I went to this little local coffee shop for a month straight. And I met a few guys there, and for some reason I'd push them away. They were either too smart, too artsy, too into themselves, too silly, too old, etc. Just excuse after excuse I would make. Some other advice I'll add is just wait. Don't really go looking. Love/relationships happen so fast. It's just when it's meant to be, it's meant to be. And once you get pretty involved with someone..it's very hard to get out of.

Good luck:)

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(Rating: 5) thanks haha thats pretty funny. the natural way takes FOREVER. but i guess ill just have to wait. thanks again :)

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