this might be kinda long so bear with me :)
i have just realized that the main reason why i dont get along with girls my age and dont even get any of them, is not because of me, its because of how they are. i realized that american girls are pretty much sluts, stereotypical, materialistic, insincere, self-centered, and only care about a guy with eitehr a full-on sixpack, or a guy with a ton of money. (Sorry, american women, that's just my opinion.)
i know this might not matter to me, or it shouldnt, but im only 16 years old and in high school, but i've dont some traveling to different countries to see what its like, and what people are like. I went to thailand last summer and all i can say about the people, wow. The men are so patient and calm and peaceful, the women are even the same. they are sincere, always smiling, and always helpful instead of just giving you attitude and scoffing in your face and rolling their eyes.
I went to england and the people there are so civilized. its so different that its unbelievable. The brits dont talk out loud and dont have attitude and dont confront random people in the park about whats bothering them. Its really comforting to be around them, same with Canadians.
i KNOW that you guys might think im being superficial, and kinda stupid like (everybodys different, nationality does change anything) but teh truth is, it does. All of the TV shows in america like, the real world, jersey shore, rock of love, and all of those reality shows influence american girls to dress like the people they see on tv, AND, act like them. Where as in England or parts in Canada, the tv doesnt broadcast so many graphic things as they do in America, And its not only TV, its the radio, music, movies, etc.
i'm actually considering moving to england or to ontario after i graduate high school next year for this reason, just to be in a betetr surrounding, instead of being scared to death in my southern california home wondering if some crook is gonna break into my car.
Again, SORRY to you people who think this is directed to you, its just my opinion. i know this was long, but i appreciate some advice, and some comments. And dont try to talk me out of moving out of the country, ive thought long and hard about it and made up my mind. Thank you!
I really don't know what advice you need, since you didn't ask a question and you've already made up your mind about leaving, but I'll give you my opinion. Please don't think I'm being rude, because I'm not. I'm just going to be honest. First, you live in Cali, so I'm assuming you're an American, so correct me if I'm wrong. Does that make you a stereotypical materialistic, insincere, self-centered slut? No, it doesn't. Because it really doesn't matter what country you're from. Yes, the area you're raised in can influence your attitude and the way you act, but there are rude and violent people everywhere, in every country. That's why there are crimes in every country, not just America. I know you said that nationality does matter, but do you have any proof of that, or is it just an opinion? I'd like to direct your attention to this article from 2009: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1196941/The-violent-country-Europe-Britain-worse-South-Africa-U-S.html. I'm not sure how accurate it is, but whether it's accurate or not, it should still give you an idea that these countries can be dangerous as well. If not, you can also look at some news websites for different countries to hear about some of the crimes committed there. I'm not saying these countries are more violent than America, I'm just saying that you get bad people and crimes everywhere. And I can say that I am certainly not a slut, or any of the other things you've mentioned. I hate that you've had these experiences, though, but can I recommend you visiting some other cities in states in America to see if you can actually meet some good people?
I'm not going to tell you not to move because if you're not comfortable in this country, then you should absolutely move somewhere where you will feel safe, but don't think that everyone here is rude and stuck-up, because not everyone is. Also, my guy doesn't have a six-pack or a ton of money, but I still love him and wouldn't want anyone else.
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Hey, thanks for youre response, it was good and i appreciate it :) I lookaed at that link you showed me and thank you for it. It hasnt changed my opinion at all, becasue i already knew about the high crime rate in England, and i understand it. CA, where i live, is only one small state, and has 36 million people. England is the same, its one small state, but it has over 50 million people, so tehre are more crimes because there are more people who are depserate for money so they commit burglary, and i understand. Which is why i liked Canada the most because its most peaceful with only 30 million people in the whole country.
But thank you! I just wanted to clear up some things that you said just in case you thought i was a stupidhead:) Thank you!
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