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Okay to make this very long story short, my boyfriend of two months cheated on me. We were bestfriends at first for over a year and a half before we dated. I'm 17 btw. I've always cared so much and beileved in him when no else did, his reputation for being a man whore always bothered me. His phone had been "broken" for about two weeks and I get this text saying hey. I started to notice it wasn't him and whoever was on the phone was beating around the bush about what they were doing. So "kate" let's call her, starts saying that my bf is hot, that he wants her a whole bunch of bull that I simply ignored. Kate ends up sending me a text saying I I shouldn't be happy because Im not the one making out with him now. I broke down. Later on that night he admitted to what she said and showed some remorse. Then day at school I saw he had a HUGE hickey on his neck. I still didn't want to beileve it. So at lunch Kate sits at choking distance so now my friends torment her and I'm a well known person so now the whole cafe hates her. I'm still unhappy my bf and I still together we sat down and talked it out it was long but we thought about it alot i still couldn't believe he let her get a hold of his phone. I know I'm stupid for taking him back but I'm in love. /: I still depressed haven't eaten in 4 days and not really much sleep either.
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the fool
I don't mean to be rude, but the answer is pretty simple; You should leave him. Why would you wanna stay with a guy that could treat you that way? It shows insecurity on your part to stay in a relationship with a guy that cheats on you. I think you should work on that as well (self-confidence). If you love yourself enough, then you'd have no problem leaving that jack-ass and finding someone worthy of you. Or just being happy single for now. We can't be always have a boyfriend in our life, or we'll never have time to ourselves in order to explore who we are.
"Kate" is a slut and your boyfriend is a real jerk. I'm so sorry that he did that to you, and I think the most healthy solution is for you to separate yourself from him.
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I get where you are coming from it isn't healthy. I do need to work on myself, it will be hard but your right I need to respect myself and my self worth. So thank you
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