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Hi, fifteen, female. There's a boy in my English class who is quite cute and I think he's been flirting with me but I thought he had a girlfriend, but turns out he broke up with her. They were going out for a year and a half, we started the second semester of English and he's been talking to me a lot and then all of a sudden, he broke up with her, I don't know if it was because of me but I just know he's single now. I'm not close enough to him to ask him what happened between them nor am I close enough to him to flirt with him yet with words. He does dumb little kid things like steal my pencil or him and the other two guys I sit with will all stare at me because they know I get creeped when people watch me do things. Yes, I sit with all guys, so when we get a paper to do, the cute boy will say "All you, I'll lend you my pencil to use and I did my part!" then he'll smile at me. He'll crack small jokes like ask our teacher if we have homework, then when she doesn't hear him he'll be like "wow thanks slut" and it makes me laugh, every time I laugh, he looks at me. He flips the pages in my book, like we'll be on page 385 and he'll flip it to page 6 and I'll slap his hand and tell him to stop and giggle (I know, giggling is lame!) I don't know, maybe it's just me thinking he's flirting. Do you think he is? If you think so what can I do to flirt back so he talks to me more? Thanks!
Well by the way he's flirting, I would say that he likes you a little bit. I dont really think that he broke up with his girlfriend just because you two are flirting, since you said that you two aren't really close enough that you could ask why they broke up. I think you should try and get closer to him just by continuing to flirt a little, and try to become friends. Talk to him more often in the halls, etc. Eventually when you two are closer you can talk on IM and text.
good luck!:)
(Rating: 5) thank you (: he just runs in a totally different social circle. i'm considered "the geek" and he's considered the guy every girl wants