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Heyy guys, I have been with my wonderful boyfriend for three and a half years.. hes great, i cant see me with any other guy, when it comes to being married that is. He is what every girl wants, a sweetheart, nice, caring, everything! But since June we havent been the best.. let me start from the start..
We started dating when I was 15 and he was 17. I never thought it would last as long as it has, the years just flew by. Hes everything I know and ever wanted. I graduated high school in 2009, and this past summer we broke up, got back together,broke up and i dated another guy and we are now back together.
But lately I have been feeling that I was never a teenager, and I missed out on what a normal teenager girl goes through.
Im so confused its unbelievable. I tried talking to him tonight about, and he understands what Im saying, but he says "just live for right now and not worry about the future" but the problem is idk what i want right now. I want to be a normal 18 year old girl.. Going out with her friends, talking to other guys, flirt a little, but at the same time i know when it comes to being married, hes the right guy. I told him I dont want to take a break bc im feeling like this bc im worried he wont be here again.. I told him I wish we didnt find each other soo young..
idk what to do? should we take a break? stay together? im really confused, has anyone had a similar position like this? (link)
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Personally, I think everyone feels like this from time to time in a relationship. It doesn't mean take a break, It's part of being committed and being in a relationship. If you need too go out with your friends, Make plans etc. It's good to have time to yourself and with friends. Just because someone has a boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't mean you need to sell your soul to them and be around them 24.7 you are still entitled to having your own social life too. This could very well be the issue, Also keep in mind that you are young. A lot of people think it's healthy to date different people, Experience new things etc. Do I think so..well I'm not going to say yes and I'm not going to say no. This is up to you, You either want to be in a relationship or you don't. If you don't you need to tell him. Communicating is the key. YOU need to decide what you want. If you need a break for awhile then take one.
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