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My name is "Lucy" Of course that isn't my real name.
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Well,here's my story...after so many failed relationships(I've been hit,cheated on,lied to...the list goes on),in a row,I began to realize I couldn't care less about having a boyfriend.Now,when some of my friends even mention love and relationships,I feel sick...it makes me wanna throw up... I don't believe in love anymore...the more love I gave,the more I ended up being hurt.Don't say "You're really young and you have a life ahead of you".... I know that... but I've been disappointed too many times.I've even developed a fear of entering a relationship ever again.I feel as though my heart is slowly turning to stone.Then yet,deep down,I want to find someone who will love me unconditionally...but I keep closing up,more and more as time goes by.Also,I've tried to date a few guys but we broke up because I was too suspicious.I mean,how can I trust anyone after being cheated on so many times? Am I supposed to feel like this? (link)
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Sometimes when someone's feelings have been stepping on repeatably it becomes harder to trust people. You stated you've been cheated on and lied too. Those are the two most hurtful things someone can do in a relationship. You're feelings are understandable. However, I don't want to lecture you but you are young. At your age, Relationships working out and lasting "forever" are very low. The feelings you are experiencing now is normal. I went through the same thing when my first boyfriend had mistreated me. It's what a heartbreaks feel like, You are still hurt and sometimes it takes time to get over it. As much as you feel you can't date again...In time you will. The saying "It happens when the time is right" Is very true. There are many guys out there that will treat you right, You just have to find them. I'd give yourself a little more time to heal first though.
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I was never thinking that relationships in my age would last forever,but I haven't been treated right ever since I began dating.So it's pretty hard for me to start it all over again.You are right though,I will give myself some time to heal.
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