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3 year old girl, autistic with severe delays, abandoned by her father 2.5 years, no support, he doesnt care to know her diagnosis', doesnt call, gave christmas presents via his mother, lives in another state but let a year go by without even trying to see her (4 hour drive). his stepmom calls every few months to see the child. should an abandoned little girl with a family who adores her allow her to see the only one of "deadbeat, past father who abandoned her's stepmother", or cut the family off with the divorce and have him provide his relatives with visitation or not. we want what is in the best interest of the child thanks!
I would let her see the child, at the child's home (just to be safe) with other people present. His family shouldn't be blamed for his mistakes. If they want to see her, what's the harm? What if you don't let her see the child (or the mother doesn't), and she grows up wondering why no one on her father's side wanted anything to do with her?
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I agree with the (just to be safe) part. The father is sneaky, has had multiple dui's, still drives drunk, has past felony convictions and is ordered by the judge to see her only with our supervision, which he doesn't anyway. As long as the step-grandmother is seeing her only out of love, I think you are right. thanks for the input
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