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heyy so i have a question that needs to be answered by saturday because thats when the date is!!! This cute guy asked me outt and we've been texting. I only met him once at a dance (but don't worry i know him through friends) so i really only talked to him in person for a little bit and i know he wants to hook up with me this weekend. I mean he seems really into me but we only met once and pretty briefly! I'm just nervous because i've really only hooked up with a guy once, i mean i've kissed guys but never really in a date like situation except one time, where its just us together, one on one all night.
I know he wants to hook up and i do too its just that first of all I'm really self conscious about my body. I'm short but not really thin so I'm worried if we're laying down and i get on top of him I'll just be really uncomfortable same with if he tries to feel me up just because I'm not comfortable with my body. Also I'm worried about being a bad kisser! i mean the last guy i hoked up with didn't have any complaints! But I'm just worried since I only met this kid once and we're gonna hang out and he won't like em or will think i'm a bad kisser.
I know this is stupid and I guess it's just nerves but doesn't anyone ever feel like this or have any advice!? Thanks so muchhhh (link)
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You don't HAVE to do anything you don't want to do. If you want things to work out and go smoothly then DON'T rush things, If you do...Well then you only gave him another reason to think that you are easy to get with. Do not feel like you have to do anything with a guy, It is your body. At least give yourself that much self respect to do things when YOU feel you are ready and comfortable. I personally don't believe in hook ups, one night stands etc. This is where girls/guys sometimes dig themselves a deep hole. They go out and do something dumb and regret it later on down the line. Save yourself for someone you have been with and know really well. Trust me, You won't regret it that way
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i wasn't planning on having sex or doing anything like that, just kissing. i don't think theres anything wrong with that! haha but still good advice
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