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so, im the new girl at my school. im a freshman in high school.ni went to my old school for 9 years and knew everyone in my grade. we were small, but comfy cozy, i could have stayed there, but i decided to switch. i had lots of friends and lots of guy friends. i was really outgoing, and that was just my personality. everyone knew me so i could act however i wanted without anyone saying anything rude. ive never been a new student before so i really didnt know how to act. somehow, these 2 girls who i thought were my friends, started to hate me, and now i feel awkward around them and whenever i do something, i always get a feeling they'll find out and judge me about it, when at my old school, i didnt have to worry about that stuff. i want to be friends with them, but they are extremely bitchy and i dont know what i should say to them. they think i started stuff with them, when i really didnt. but heres what i really need some help on. im not friends with a lot of guys at my school, and its making me feel like ive lost my outgoinging"ness". lots of my friends are friends with guys, but i never put myself out there anymore because im afraid what people will think. i dont know how to get me out of this. its been worrying me for awhile now. i know it takes time to make friends, but i really want some guy friends. anyone know anything i can do?

Yes!! Ignore those girls because they are J.E.A.L.O.U.S of Y.O.U! Now you might be thinking why! Lets see.. You are outgoing and guys like that and its easy to make friends that way. So don't want for them to come and talk to you. you go and talk to them! ask me how things are going and what they like to do and ask if you could sit with them at lunch and then maybe after awhile ask them if they wanna hang out. dont mind those people who may say things about you! they just dont know how to get out there and make friends so they want to make other people feel week and hide! ;) get out there and have fun...i mean u can still keep the friends from your old school..you will always have them! good luck! ;)

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