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ok iwas datng a guy for almost a month after we had been talking and friends for like 3 months im 17 and hes 20 idc about age and he broke up with me and idk how to like get over it bc i know its weird but he was my first kiss and i started to really trust him and i found out later he let me for a 45 yr old :( so i don't know what to do im so hurt by what he did i trusted him and i thought we were starting to actually love each other. his excuse for the break up is that we were to different and it wouldn't last no matter how much we loved each other i just don't know what to do :( i tried talking to him like a week after he broke up with me and he said he needed sum space so i feel like all he wanted me for was sex and thank god i didn't im just so hurt by him . (link)
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im the same position your in, except my girlfreind left for university. im 18 she's 19. Ever since that day iv missed her, thought about her, written songs to do with the time we spent. It hurts to think we probably wont be together again ever after her course is up because she found some one else. it hurt's.. god damn it does. but what makes us stronger is not to swell our emotions on this one thing. This on thing is but a single line in a mass puzzle called love that everyone gets them selves in to at some point or another. Be thankfull you still have your purity, you can wait and save it for some one you really really care for. you'll know when the time is right. i lost my viriginty to my ex who left me. i trusted her with every little bit i had not to break my heart and it still ended up that way.
If he's truely made his mind up about not wanting to be with you, theres not alot you can do im affraid. take as much time as you need to get over it dont let people be dicks about it by saying stuff "God its been 2 months allready get over it" its been 3 months for me tryin to get over my ex, and although that short month and a half we spent together was the happiest iv been in a long time (about 7 years i hadnt had a gf for that long) i wouldnt forget it nor give up those same feelings for any substitute.
if at all possible, try to stay away from the lovey dovey types of things. things that remind you of him and stuff like that. it'll only prolong the healing process.
hope iv been of some help, i feel iv gotten alot of my chest rather than helped some one... sorry :s
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thanks you really helped me through this thing and made me see it in a different way maybe i can get over him .
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